So I met this girl at a concert, she wasnt all done up, but she got great bolt ons so I could tell there was something good. She was with one other person, her mom! So I started talking to her mom, boom got the invite to her daughter, changed numbers kiss closed first night, texts the whole way home.

So we've been out several times, spent the night at her place, or mine, plenty of sex. This goes on for 3 monthes. We talk every day for like 30 min. Both met eachothers parents ect. So we are talking to some random people in a bar and a girl asks us if Im her boyfriend. She says kind of but not really generalization responce. So I bang the shit out of her that night. Later I asked if she wanted to lock it down (commitment) cause Im really into this girl. She said I knew you were gonna ask that, gave me the no answer but didnt really explain it. Weekend turned a lil akward.

So I did my facebook homework, found there was a guy near her parents house, and he called her babe and said she tasted sweet on her facebook wall. Dude I got some one-itis happening. Everytime I hang out with this girl I cant turn it off. How do I???

Heres my triangle. Shes going to school, has 2 semesters left. School, home for her, and my place are 3 points of a triangle all 1 hr away from eachother. She loves the area where shes going to school ie beach, and there is no beach near her house.

So I had a hot friend leave me a message on my facebook wall saying thanks for last night I had so much fun ect. Boom phone call next day.

We just went camping, had great sex. Keeps sayings shes crazy about me but still doesnt want a relationship (I havent been pushing the subject). I dont talk to her everyday now on the phone ether.

Ive tried the mid week rondevouz where we meet half way somewhere to hang out but I dont get any play. Shes got her own little push pull stategies on top of that.

I need to A) pre-boyfriend kill this dude B) need some better push pulls to out game her C)lock this thing down cause she gets alot of attenchion (social butterfly)

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Sounds like trouble, i recommend you keep enjoying ure time with her and keep fucking her , and control ure mind so u can let her go ; go sarge and meet some new ppl all this is going to do is cause you pain , i know from experience almost same situation but it sounds as if shes going to be a cheater if u go out with her ; but since ure not commited she can fuck around
GO DO THE SAME

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Ya kno what man, ya i think ur best bet is to go for broke. Its clear that you want a relationship and she doesnt. So call her on it, just tell her straight, i like you alot, i really enjoy spending time with you, but where is this going? Is all you want from this is for us to be friends with benefits, or is this leading somewhere farther? See what she says, chances are this other guy has been around for a long time and shes waiting on him, but she clearly likes you alot and its tearin her apart inside. If she says that all she wants is to be fuck buddies, well at least u know where you stand and then u can keep her for some side pussy and move on. At least you will have closure on the situation.

my advice...

ive been there.. girl really into you and wants to keep fucking you and you *really* like her but for whatever reason won't commit.. keeping herself for somebody (ex) shes in love with.. closet lesbian.. has an arranged marriage.. doesnt really matter the reason...

here's the deal.. you really have two options.. push the lock down or enjoy the ride..

pushing the lockdown:
-- being honest with yourself, reason you want the lockdown is to keep her from the other guy.. before the whole her denying the bf thing you were fine with fun and plenty of sex and letting the relationship thing develop as it will

-- so here it is.. if you push the relationship, you lose the sex. she will eventually cut you off if she feels pressured for the relationship...
-- direct honestly, she has a reason shes not in a relat with you though she obviously likes you.. and theres probably nothing you can do about it...
-- on a positive note, you will then know where you stand and not risk getting yourself hurt.. you stand up, be strong, and have closure one way or another
-- this is the method i took.... I REGRETTED IT!!

hanging back/ being the fuck buddy:

-- trust me, if you push the relationship and lose the sex, you will regret it.. when it dries up you wont care if she doesnt date you as long as she fucks you..
-- so you need to lay back.. (i have not done this correctly yet, because its *very* hard, but heres how to do it)

1) like you have been doing, do *not* mention a relationship.. if she brings it up, just say "we're having a lot of fun and you didnt want a relationship for whatever reason, so when you're ready to talk about what's holding you back, we'll talk.. meantime, come over here.. " - you get the idea..

2) and this is probably the most important!! you have to get hold of your mind!!
a. she has somebody else, so she will *never* get one-itis for you
b. you need to make sure you take 2-3 days a week to set up someone else on the side to help fight your own inevitable one-itis. once you have one or two more girls like her in the wings, having her as a fuck buddy will be just an awesome bonus and you may even lock down one of the other girls...
c. KEEP FUCKING HER - as long as you are fucking her, she also cannot commit emotionally to somebody else and she will get more attached.
d. tell her if you cannot see her because of the other girl (I guarantee she is seeing someone else, so she will not blame you for this, quite the opposite, it will trigger jealousy/ loss), just dont make it crass.. simple "i have plans that night" is subtle enough..
e. MOST IMPORTANT AND THE HARDEST!!! get control of your mind...
-- eventually the other guy will find out and if you are being cool, when he freaks, you will suddenly have more value than him
-- if shes with you, you have something he doesnt so he is really no threat
-- take WHATEVER time you need to maintain your cool. if you have to avoid her for a couple days/ weeks to be cool, do so.. just never tell her why.. let her think you're with another girl..
-- releas your inevitable anger and frustration through sex... its the only way that will work... be fun at all other times..
-- the way to win is not to compete.. get the frame that you are the best choice for her and if she makes the wrong choice you will be sad for her for making the wrong choice..

Trust me dude.. although this is by far the hardest (if not almost inhumanly possible) road, you will regret pushing the relationship... better to enjoy her as an awesome fuck buddy and control your mind/heart/ and situation to help you find another one.. (you can even use her as social proof to help you find her replacement - girls judge the quality of the girl you are with, so she will attract girls of like quality)

theres always the possibility she may change her mind or whatever situation is holding her back will change, but if you're still fucking her when it happens, you're in there. if you push her away, you may not be next in line when it happens..