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Alright so, tonight me and a few of my friends decide to go to a lan center. (We play some shooting games and stuff till around 2am and go to chill outside till we leave.) So we're sitting outside just chatting and smoking some weed and these 2girls walk by, and they see us and we say hi they walk by and im pissed at myself for not saying anything... But then they walk into the back of the lan center come out the door and we're all about to leave, so instead im like hey way lets chill for a sec. So we're still sitting on my car and these girls are walking by and i'm like

Me: Whatsup
hb7: Nm just walkin' around
Hb4: we're really bored
Me: Ah we're just about to go to wal-mart wanna come? (I wasn't sure what to say and my friend and i were thirsty.)

So we go to wal-mart, i sit in the back with the 2 girls and i'm kinda introducing myself and friends trying to be the alpha. Anyway, we get into the store and we get some water jugs and we're looking around at the ice cream and the hb7 goes for the whip-cream and says "Hey so, you should lend me like $3.56 for this" and im thinking, Nah shes trying to use me. But my other friend agrees and buys it. So we're walking out to the car and get in, and she starts inhaling the air to get high, (At the time i was still high) and i start smiling, and she gets a little on her mouth, and she wipes it off and doesn't eat it, and im like

Me: Why you just gonna leave that on ur hand?

And out of no where she puts her hand to my mouth and i eat the whip-cream off her hand. (And this point im thinking FUCK Yea make-out time) But was kinda unsure how to escalate as she was a few years younger and i didn't wanna move to fast. So i'm kinda just letting our hands/legs and all that tough in the car, like i'm not doing it on purpose.and right after this is happening she grabs my phone and puts her number in it. So we get back to the lan center and we're talking, and they wanna go grab money from their house. So my friend says sure and we go and she grabs some Orange juice in a cup and eggs, they wanna egg a house and the hb7 also brings out some ecstasy for herself. She does it and starts to trip out a bit later. so we egg an house go back to the lan center and just kinda sit around chatting and doing nothing, and i started to see my chances dwindle, so im trying to poke fun at her and get her to smile and in the conversation. At this point, we're literally just standing around talking doing nothing, and everyone gets really bored. So i'm like Hey I wanna go for a walk while we wait for Mike. (Mike had more weed on him and we wanted to smoke) so i go off alone and i see her start to follow me (I again was thinking make-out time) but my friend calls me back and says hey go talk to mike so i go inside and he says he just smoked it all...so i go back outside and tell them whats going on and their kinda bummed, so we sit back down and do nothing for awhile. (i was thinking in my head so much to try and think of something fun we could do and to improve my chances with the hb7) so we are sitting around she lays down in my friends car, im looking at her body laying down she looks up and see's me, and smiles, i smile back BUT DID NOTHING. so we go back to all talking about nothing joking around having an ok time but nothing exciting. and eventually they wanna go home so we take them home, and on the way there she hands me a dime and i'm like.

Me: What do i do with this? (Smiling)
hb7: buy 10 1penny candies
Me: (trying to be C+F) I'd only get 7 cuz of tax u gotta give me more!
hb7: then just get 7.

so we get to her house and my plan was to offer her the dime back, and if she wants it tell her she has to give me a kiss to get it back...But we get to their house and i say

Me: Wait u need ur dime
hb7: Naw its ok u can have it
Me: Are u sure?!
hb7: Yeah its fine, Bye, nice meeting u guys.
me: Alright bye!

and i think to myself, fuck, they did not have asmuch fun as i wanted them to, and i'm a little upset. so trying to fight the AFC of the past (atleast i hope) i text her

"Yo, was nice meeting you. Sorry we didn't have too much fun, next time we chill we'll do something crazy."

~Dueces J

but no text back, and im afraid she took this as needy. and with all that just aswell, i'm REALLY upset i blew this..both my other friends were hitting on her but i feel like i won her over and just didn't make a move.

It's really bothering me and im feeling terrible i didn't do anything and didn't try to help the group by making something exciting happen. If anyone has any criticism on this, i'd LOVE it. I can't believe i fucked up so bad. I'm hurtin' guys.

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TL;DR Blew my chances with girl just met, VERY upset.

thanks ~Jay

Bump + more info.

I Ran into hb4, and she said hb7's number she gave me is her home phone. (I was waiting for a text and asked her if hb7 was just ignoring me or what) but i also find out she has a Boyfriend. I'm busy this week and i really wanna try to set something up with this girl for this weekend.

So my plan is to find something to do for us, hopefully find a party. (i'd ask her on a date, but she just doesn't seem like one of those types of girls, more the party have fun all the time and get drunk and high all day) Also, shes 16 so she still lives with her parents and doesn't have a cell phone ><.

My question is (Since i didn't really get any help from my previous post) how should i go about calling her and asking her to come chill and all? I mean, its been 2days since i've seen her and im really trying to resist calling her for fear of her completely blowing me off and disregarding we ever met. If anyone has an input or an idea, i'd appreciate it alot, thanks.