Update From Last week:
Firstly, I just wanna follow up on this FR (
did-well-but-gotta-figure-out-how-to-ge ... 48648.html) I posted last week. I talked to my buddy the following week, and he told me that on top of this girl going to Central America, shes going to school in China next semester so I decided not to pursue her for now. But ill keep her in the back of my mind for the future.
Anyways to the FR from my night at the bar last night...
So last night I went to the bar at around 10, and by the time I got there my 7 friends were already inside so I met up with them there. They were sitting at a table just having some beer because the night was young and to my surprise there was a familiar looking cute blonde HB7.5 sitting among them. So I greeting my friends when the HB7.5 opens me...
HB: You must be a "Fogell" (really she said my last name)
Me: How did you know that?
HB: Because your younger brother used to play soccer with my brother for years, you guys look the same.
ME: Ohhhh ya... now that i think of it you sorta look like your broth...(she interupts me)
HB: Ya I look nothing like my brother
Me: Uhhhhh I guess you sorta look like your dad
HB: WHAT? You think I look like my dad!?!
Me: Well there goes my chances
I dont know why the hell I said that haha. I was gonna say she looked like her brother but when she said she doesnt it threw me off, and it just came out haha. At that point I thought I had no shot but I didnt care because there were plenty of other HBs at the bar. But instead of ejecting I just continued to socialize at the table. She eventually got up to go to the bathroom, and at that time my friend Andrew tells me that my buddy Derek had already F-Closed HB7.5 four times, but that she was still fair game. Although I thought I was pretty much done after my dumb comment, but I was still interested.
Anyways, she comes back to the table and she starts talking to me. So I just went with some natural game on her. Just teased her, tried to DHV myself, some light kino, and just tried to act like a fun guy. Eventually were somewhat isolated and she starts telling me about how she F-Closed my friend Derek 4 times but she really regrets it, and how shes not interested in him at all anymore because she thinks hes a player (he was gaming other girls while I was talking to her). From there the conversation goes towards alot of sexual things, and I could tell that she was down to fuck if I continued proper game. I was already starting to get some IOI's. Early on she wasnt laughing at my stupid jokes, but at this point she was laughing at them all.
So we keep talking and eventually she suggests that we get some drinks at the bar. And I said, "Only if your buying". And she says "Of course". So im thinking Im definately in now, and its time to K-close. However, I really had to piss, so I ejected to go to the washroom, but she said she had to go to and came with me. When I got out of the bathroom I saw 2 guys approach her, but I immeaditely interupt...
Me: There you are my sister! Sorry guys I told my mom Id look out for her, shes not allowed to talk to guys at the bar. (I should mention that we made up as a joke that we were brother n sister, because are families already knew each other. Not a bad False Disqualifier actually)
Random Guy: You guys are actually brother and sister?
HB: Ya my mom makes him protect me.
Me: Sorry guys, have a good night.
HB: Omg thank you haha
I Isolate her over to this empty corner at this point...
Me: Now since were only pretending to be brother/ sister, would it be weird if I kissed you right now?
HB: haha absolutely not
So we Make Out for prolly 10 mins when I suggest that we should get back to our friends. I was thinking I could F-Close her tonight, so I didnt wanna just make out all night. So we go back to the table and our friends are gone. So we just sit there talking having a good time. Eventually our friends come back, and my buddy Andrew pulls me aside and tells me I should back off because our buddy Derek is pissed at me. So now I just feel like a complete asshole at this point because obviously its "Bros before Hoes", so I go over to Derek and apologize to him and tell him that Ill back off. It was clear that the HB7.5 wanted me and not him. But I wasnt willing to risk losing a good friend over a girl I barely knew. So I just backed off the game, and played pretty cold the rest of the way. I talked to her abit here and there the rest of the night, and at one point she even mentioned sarcastically "We better be careful, because Derek might get mad haha".
After that whole point my frame was pretty messed up so I didnt really game the rest of the night. Somehow I wound up in a set isolated with this HB8. I was occupying her while one of my other friends game her friend. And I was just running the most AFC interview style game ever. I just couldnt be myself after what had happened earlier because I just felt bad. So that was the night.
Anyways, tonight my buddies were gonna go out again to the bar, and the HB7.5 was gonna be there was well, but I decided not to go because I know myself, and if I was there I would prolly end up hooking up with the HB7.5 again. Although I want to hook up with her again, and F-Close her, I cant because its not worth losing a friend.
What are your guys' thoughts on how I handled all this?
CHAT
