Okay so I haven't been here in a while....let alone been in the game (out sarging)...I been up north in a shit kicking town and sadly to say have just been hanging out I haven't gone out to pick up woman. I found the game a while back but never really tried it or participated in it full blown.

Well last night i decided to try and went out with a few friends to some bars. I thought i was going to be nervous and have heavy approach anxiety but surprise to say I had none whatsoever when I got there. The first few minutes I was there I opened up a two set with a canned opener (the one about should my friend still see his ex-girlfriend....). From that moment on it felt great I could talk to any girl without breathing heavy or having my heart beat rapidly. So I was happy i defeated approach anxiety, for this was something that crippled me in the past.

But that wasn't the problem. I just didn't know what to do next and the conversations just fizzled out and the girls weren't engaged. I felt like I was doing numerous things wrong. If any one has any advice, i'd love to hear it.

On a side note i opened a two set and my friend spoke to one of the girls but the one i was trying to target wouldn't even look up from her phone to listen to me....what should have I done? Neg her? Call her on it? I don't know.... i was successful in one area that night and im happy about that (defeating approach anxiety), you have to start somewhere i guess, but everywhere else i felt....nothing happened....cause after the openers the girls didn't add much to the convo. They gave straight answers....I don't know if anyone has any sort of advice I'd love to hear it. Or any openers that work better than what I had. Thanks.

But that wasn't the problem. I just didn't know what to do next and the conversations just fizzled out and the girls weren't engaged. I felt like I was doing numerous things wrong. If any one has any advice, i'd love to hear it.

You haven't really practiced yet, don't beat yourself up. You decided to take a chance an open a set, some guys have trouble getting over 'that' hurdle alone. Get out there and have some fun...keep at it, you'll find your groove.

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