Anybody take pride in leaving girls in a better position? In really helping to make girls lives better?

There was an intern in my office. Just out of high school, beautiful and about 13 years younger than me. She was in the office all summer and we developed a lot of rapport, we would joke around, play pranks on other office workers, flirt a little bit, and basically became really good friends.

I never invited her to hang out outside of the office, I never asked for her phone number. I gamed her, but not with the goal of getting a lay.

We had a going away party for her, and she gave a little speech about her experience in the office. At the end of her speech she said she wanted to give out a special thank you to her very favorite person in the office, who made her experience in the office really great. And that person was me.

Of course, I turned red, getting a huge IOI from the girl straight out of HS in front of my co-workers.

I feel really good about enriching her experience and leaving her in a better position. I think if I had gamed to get a lay that would not have happened. It's weird but getting that IOI from her has put me in such an awesome mood; much better than if I had escalated sexual tension with her and added her to the list of women I have slept with.

Anyone else take pride in having relationships with girls to do not necessarily end with a lay?

That's just awesome man. Respect. It is a great feeling. I can actually relate.

Some girls you meet in certain situations and you just feel that you want to make a positive difference to their lives, nothing more. It's altruism at its best.

I've been doing that with HB8 for the past couple of weeks - I found out she works in a café near me; I met her one day with direct game and since then we had always unspokenly-agreed to get laid, but due to each of us being taken by bf's or gf's at various times and bad logistics it never happened, which caused a rift between us. Having met her again 3 or 4 times last two weeks, I didn't take her number, just made her laugh and smile.

I even bought her some expensive chocolate, the day she was going to see her boyfriend in London. I didn't let her say thankyou and quickly left so she could see I expected no outcome from it. (She later had to explain to her boyfriend what kind of guy would do that, hahaha.)

Radical.

So did your coworkers say anything to you about it? Do you still have contact with the girl?

One co-worker made a comment about how I was her favorite, but that was it.

Yeah, I'll probably see her around - I live on a tiny island of less than 30,000 people. If I see her maybe I'll ask her what she's up to and see if she wants to hang out.