ok heres the story...

I picked up a HB9 at the bar at the start of the night last night. As the night progressed i met another gorgeous HB9 and sat down with her and ran game on her until she eventually gave me digits and leaving the bar with me. While I was talking to the second HB9 the first one kept walking by giving the jealous eyes.

when i Texted her to see if shes up for something saturday this is what she said "No i'm not, and if your as interested as you say...you wouldnt have spent the whole night with another girl. I dont deal with players"



NOW this is where im stuck. what do i say to this ? any ideas will be much appreciated


thank you

- Jay

Jay,

Face it man you got caught gaming another chick, it happens. There is no recovery from this. You don't have enough rapport to combat this without going really AFC and bowing to her. Plus she'll always have this in the back of her head, you can't erase what you did.

The only thing you can do to combat this behavour is setting expectations. You set the expectation when you talk to her. That you date a lot of people. But if you find the one then you'll break it off with the others type of thing. Most women can respect this but some just can't handle or don't want to deal competing with others.

There are other 9s and 10s in the sea. Work on the last 9 you are talking to and move on!

Jon

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I highly agree with this.. but when you do try and recover dont text her to do it. Call her and put her on the spot.

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Thanks, Alias.

thanks for the info

Dude come on!

I mean really come on!

If this girl is getting jealous of you talking, being friendly or even touching (in a friendly way or flirty way) another girl, do you REALLY want her in your life!? I mean a guy can have many friends and if they are social like i assume you are, they will want as many friends as possible reguardless of gender! If this girl cant handle the fact you want to meet other woman or you talk to other woman then its her problem and if shes willing to loose you (and remember you are the prize) then let her do it as shes clearly not worth your time!

And time is by far the most valuable thing anybody can give or take away from you!

Now I better stop before I rant too much and get those big red boils again!

Spark.