hey you all its me

Thought I'd join this site because I learn pretty well when I talk things out with other like minded people.

These are areas I'm trying to grow in:

1) My inner game. I often take rejections and stuff to heart

2) Improving my online game. I've been using Insider Internet Dating for a few weeks and have definitely seen results already. I do all my stuff online: mostly match dot com and facebook (no one has seem to have written a comprehensive way to pick up girls on facebook as far as i can tell). I don't do any "sarging" or picking up girls out on the street mostly cause I don't feel confident doing that yet.

3) I'm pretty good at first dates, so far. Somewhere, between the first and second dates I'm blowing it cause I don't get too many second dates, though I do succeed in kissing a good number of girls on the first date. So I don't get laid as much as I'd like.

4) Actually, the goal is to find one bad-ass girl and make her my girlfriend. (I've met a few girls that I think would have made great girlfriends but I blew it somewhere along the way). I'm pretty comfortable with monogamy with the right person. All this pick up stuff is a means to an end for me

thanks for any welcomes in advance

Hey dude yeh welcome to the site you sound like a fast hard working learner so all the best

thanks man

drop the online dating stuff and get out. only girls with low standards go to online dating sites. if you get a girl on a online dating site, you most likely wont even need to game her.

thanks for the advice man, but I think I'll continue using online for awhile

been using some good material and it got me five dates in July, so I want to hone it.

not to say that I won't get out to

just make sure you go out as much as you "chat". cause what you might be doing (i dont know) is hiding behind your computer screen because you have too much approach anxiety in the field (the real field). if that is the case, i recommend you drop the online thing completely and just go out. because in the end, the place you will be running the game is in the field, not on some online dating site. the big fish is out in the field, and you know it.