The Girl
HB 9/ In a relationship/ Misses Her Asshole ex (who cheated on her)

The Situation
I connected with her on FB.

We talked and built rapport, I got her number as we are supposed to hang out.

She is in a relationship (weak relationship)

She was in a long term with her ex, and looks like she still thinks about him.

Questions

1.) Ideal setting? (Coffee Shop? Beach?)
2.)How to act when she talks with her boyfriend.

3.) Any suggestions!?


Thanks you for reading my post, and please give me some suggestions.

Sergio.x

First off, is she in a relationship or not? You say she is, then refer to the guy as her ex. Please clarify.

I'd advise against anything like coffee shops or dinner because they are linked to dates. Unless you're REALLY close with her and then its like hanging out with a friend.

Beach is ok if you teach her how to surf or something.

If she talks with her bf on the phone, remain unreactive. Just pretend to get distracted. If you can pull it off, wander around while she's on the phone and "happen" to strike up a random conversation with a girl nearby. Try to engineer that to look like the new girl is hitting on you. e.g. don't make it look like you approached her.

Flirt with her and do tons of push pull. Make it VERY ambiguous as to whether you are pursuing her or not. One second you're laughing and touching her, the next second you're subtly disqualifying.

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Hey Fuji..

She is in a relationship with guy B(but its weak) ..but she is not over boyfriend A which is her ex.

What do I say when she talks about him and how horrible he was?