A thread in this section on numbers game has got me thing about Approaches and gettin blown off And I JUST realised that I have not been blown off anytime in the 4 MONTHS!! in fact in my 8 months of approaches I have wow.. been blown off only 4-5 times I can count them on one hand!!!!!


I have made not very many but close to 150 approaches and have got numerous dates and numbers...so what do I do....... Well firstly I am not what you'd call a very good looking guy I'd say I'm average to below avg. But I always maintain good hygine and the way I dress and style and smell I send out a strong message to the girl that I know about style and fashion more than she does, thus higher social status.

I convey to her that I'm not interested in gettin her to bed or even talk to her if she is not interestin enough!! When I'm out gaming I talk to everyone from guys, mixed groups married couples thus creating a social value. I do that natually because I love to listen to what people have to say and thinking of it now it probably creates an attraction !!!

I dont want to talk about myself but this just got me thinking.... I would walk away with 4-5 numbers sometimes make out with both friends or some other girl and the funny part is they would see me making out with another girl and yet make out with me too ! I guess the fact that I walk around with "this is my world, I am having a good time and I dont need you" probably triggers the attraction switch in women


SORRY JUST GOT CARRIED AWAY IN MY THOUGHTS

A wise man told me once.. "bitches are like busses. If you miss this one, the next one will be here in 15 minutes."

If you approach and are attempting a positive and lighthearted interaction and you get blown off, screw it. No point in taking something like that personally. There could be a lot of reasons a girl blows you off that really have nothing to do with you. Maybe the last guy that hit on her upset her and now you approach so she is in a bad mood already and just blows you off etc. It's still your reality so interpret it in a positive way.

I don't think getting a rejection is a DLV. It's only a DLV if you walk away looking like your mother just spanked you and sent you to your room. If you walk away and keep your smile, people may very well see that as a DHV because someone else being rude didn't phase you. (assuming you are not being an ass about anything)

Also, if you come across as if you don't really care what she thinks about you anyways, then a rejection from her won't bother you and you can get on to finding someone with a much better vibe to talk to. Point is, you said hi, she rejected it in one way or another.. move on. At least you know now and you won't be walking around all night wondering if you might have hit it off. That takes balls!

If rejections still bother your inner game and you have a hard time getting around that, then perhaps use eye contact etc and scout for IoI's first and then directly approach. That way you know they are interested and most likely won't reject you. OR, if you are unsure how they will react to you opening their set, then open the set with a fast comment as you walk by and just keep going. It's like a shit test for them. If they laugh etc (IOI) then come back a few minutes later. If they just look at you like they were annoyed just smile and keep going and don't turn back, you basically just blew them off for not responding positively.

A great quick opener that I thought about one day for example.. you are walking by a solo HB who is texting or whatever on her cell phone. As you walk by you can say something like, "Now how are you supposed to call me, I haven't even given you my number yet!" Or perhaps.. "Oh crap! My phone is about to die.. I might not get that text!" It's cocky funny and if they laugh then great, if they give you a crappy look.. just laugh and keep walking. Truth is, either way it really is funny and either way there are more women ready to be opened.

Anywho.. Peace

~Skailz~

It's like a guy who never loses a fight. What does that mean? a) he doesnt get into any fights, or b) he only picks fights he can win. He never challenges himself.

Or he may be Mike Tyson !!

Even Mike Tyson got knocked the fuck out. Ask Buster Douglas.