hey everyone
its been a long time since i have been on here, i can feel the effects of not practicing my stuff and have come up with a question, i shall delve into detail so you gain an idea of what could be said


so i was i sat at home just relaxing checking emails and stuff when my ex asks me to join her on her lunch break from work so i do i get ready throw a shirt and a jacket and go to meet her by where she works, we meet up and go grab a coffee and go to a shop so i can get a new phone. now i have a strict i don't go back to ex's thing so its not what your all thinking...
so after we have talked and i have walked her back to her work i decide i would go buy a new watch (seen as i didn't own one in the first place) so im there choosing what would look good when i get a phone call from my best mate hotseat
we arrange to meet up with another mate and go to a music shop and look at some stuff.
now whilst im doing this the sales woman is staring at me waiting to come up to me and make a sale now i didn't register this at first but she was at least an 7.

so as im saying goodbye to hotseat on the phone, i turn too the saleswoman and raise one finger in the air to tell her one minute, so i get off the phone and sorry about that, if this guy got any further up my ass i swear id be gay, she giggles and i continue right im looking at this watch over here could you give me some help and tell me that it looks magnificent on my wrist i then smile and proceed to show her which one i want in a matter of moment we are at the desk and she is placing the watch on me, i tell her that im a tad scrawny so ill need a few links taken off, i suddenly realize that i was chatting this woman up whilst she was working... my conscious took over and i forced myself to stop because for some reason i felt it was very unprofessional and widely inappropriate i don't know why i stopped, i have gone over this and thought i didn't actually do anything inappropriate but i still felt though i should stop and back away.

im not too sure what happened but it affected me because when i went to meet up with the guys and we went to mac Donald's for some grub there was a really hot girl at a 9 on till and felt though i would stop myself again if i went up to her and asked her for a date etc...
perhaps its was that my confidence has dropped
or that i have a nagging thing in my head telling me im being a rude prick

not too sure what happened but yeah opinions welcome

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I really dont see why you stopped i think you were doing great. maybe you are some kind of robotic pua or something

Some guys have had issues like that because it's kinda going so well the shock factor kicks in.

It seems you're dropping off right before you should be initiating the number close.


Maybe you're getting a little last minute jitters or something.


But at the same time, especially with the watch girl, you need to realize they flirt with every man who walks in as a result of it helping their sales.


I flirt with old ass ladies all day to sell them more expensive coffee.


However, getting the McDonalds girl number... there's no excuse for not doing it. Especially if she was a 9.

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