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PostPosted: Mon Aug 03, 2009 2:36 am 
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How can you get feedback from the girl without being seen as insecure. I need some way to do it, to easily improve my game.

Look, everyone here knows that a question like "what do you think about me" will low the interest and attraction, but that answer (a sincere answer) may get the crucial points that youre forgetin for so long. So, how to do it?

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No I dont. Happily. But you can agree with me that some feedback about "how youre doing" is good.

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I personally wouldn't ask a girl those questions unless I had no intent on gaming her. It just makes you look needy.
That's the deal! Im asking for a way to make her talk about it, even inducing her to reveal what she thinks. Probably there another best way to know it, not so directly as a question.

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Right dude.

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Two ways to get effective feedback:

-After the lay, when you're in bed together and she's being honest with you.

-From a GOOD coach who's watching the interaction.

Anything else isn't really worth your time. Don't ask a girl any feedback questions unless you've already slept with her. She won't be honest anyway. Sometimes I close girls JUST to find out about something. :)

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I have received a private message about this thread:
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Ask her something like, "tell me, a lot of guys prolly have hit on you tonite and every other nite. what is it in me that you find that makes you comfortable to give out your number".

Play a lil funny with her here by saying, 'yeah I know I am fun and handsome but I want you to say it (smile)' ......
That guy hits the point. You can get the feedback and still preserve your value. Great!

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Fu$$ who was the guy. I have similar questions and would like to get some feedback and help for clubs.
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is Marc, awesome guy. He always PM for privacy.

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is Marc, awesome guy. He always PM for privacy.

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Marc. I have been reading his posts since you mentioned him and he is awesome !! His field and lay reports are awesome. I have read his comments on some other posts also and he seems like he knows a lot of stuff and is bang on his comments. Great, I'll PM him ..Thanks FU$$
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So guys, Ive tested marc's line friday on messenger with a beautiful j-girl that I k-closed.

-me: there are so many guys that day, what makes the difference in me?
-she: you keep the visual contact in a different way, I dont know how to explain it
-me: interesting

BINGO. It works. I've preserved my value and get the feedback.

Fu$$$$$

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