OKay so listen up, I know this was a big issue for me and I always wanted help and info and ways of solving it. I could never find enough info but now thta I have overcome it I want to share some tips and ideas that might help with you all that are experiencing this issue. First thing you should wrap your head around is no its not just going to go away with a snap of the fingers. This is a bigger issue than you think and it needs a bigger SPAM, depending on how sever the case. For myself I had serious issues because I let the actions of one girl determine my inner/outer game for a long time before having gotten over the cliff. It was neil strauss' rules of the game that had me cured. What i did was I got back to the basics. The game is all about us. Spend attention to yourself. Go out buuy a new outfit, find a sociall gathering, get a new haircut, and make yourself feel like your just ballin'. All of this is to help take your mind off any girl that is your cancer. now that you have A tkaen care of yourself B taken care of her, now you can move onto C which is new women. And for all those who are really huing up about this girl and what she will think of your apparent change and these new women, this is what you want. clearly what you had wasnt quite what she was looking for. If you have mad the effort to change for not HER but YOU she will notice. also when she sees you with new women she will start to think hmm............looks like whats hes brought to the table now is what everyone wants and there you go. she wants you, your over her, you have found someone else and your full of options. There should always be options for you as a man. This may seem like a very juvenille approach to a cure but you need to do these things that built up your self esteem and confidence. Once you are done these things you will have a stronger inner game to work with and it will show through in your game. Dont just wake up eat breath work eath shit and fall asleep. be something, and dont sit around all day in bed worried about that one girl cause she is not worried about you. Turn her tables and feel the satisfaction sink in. ITS A GOOD FEELING! You cant live in your small town your whole life and say you have seen all the world has to offer. Same with women. meet other people, fuck other women, see the world and then think back to your little town and ask if it was so special, but make sure when your in paris and madrid and rome your eyes are open and you can see the details cause there is no point in taking a blindfolded vacation. Once again this is similar im women. You cant go on a sarge thinking about her, or thats all you will do and you will miss the 100000000000000000000000000000000000000000 HB's walk right by that were all perfect for you. Hope it helps a lil bit. Zappped-----