Just curious what some examples of the worst blowouts you guys have ever had were?

Not to scare newbies, but actually think there is a good lesson to be shared in mine & probably some of your others.

My #1 blowout was long before I got into the game, & the event that set me on my chodly ways for years. It was just a terrible combination at the time my worst ever, still to this day even after hundreds of approaches, & really only mean blowout, also being my 1st.

It was back in my teens long before I knew of game. I had little AA though, & had actually rolled up on a girl at a dance, got her to the corner & started making out with her somehow. Thinking back it was actually an impressive move. I remember the cockblocking friend came over, grabed her away, & pointed at my lips & said they were big & ugly & they left.

I wasted years walking around feeling self contious about myself & avoiding approaches when infact most girls I have found actually think that's my most attractive feature! Took me getting into the game to really believe them. What's so stupid looking back was even that girl's friend was enjoying making out with me & I know didn't want to leave & I just totally ignored that far bigger positive & let the other 2 seconds shape years of my life.

Don't think I would have ever jumped into pick up with the passion I have now trying to catch up & learned nearly as much as I have. I'd still be the 1st date flower buying pushover guy, so I'm not sad where I'm at today, but don't let a bad blowout do that to you guys. Seriously. Since I have gotten in the game the worst blowout's I really get are girls walking away when I go in, & they have gotten much fewer.

I actually started a post about this a little while back. There are some good stories there too.

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My bad. Good thread BTW

We can turn the direction of this thread then because I have been meaning to ask along similar lines how you guys handle rejection now.

I've experiemented with both laughing/ smiling, "looks" like you I can't believe you are rejecting me, to just no reaction at all. How do you guys handle it.

My least favorite blowouts now are the ones that just walk away and don't give you a chance to turn it. At least if they say something you have something to work with.

If I have a blowout it usually plays like this...

Sexual Opener I'm borrowing from El Topo

J Smooth: "You're open minded right?
HER: Yeah
J Smooth: "What percentage of men really know to to please a woman? The reason I ask is because I find it interesting how differently men and women view sexuality and relationships."
HER: INSERT BLOWOUT
J Smooth: ":) Pleasure meeting you.."

I want to say right now that it is very very rare that I have a huge blowout. Unless I am experimenting with something new or highly sexual then I'm going to be okay. It's rare that I open more than 2 or 3 sets in a night and one of them not go very far.

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