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PostPosted: Thu Jul 30, 2009 3:20 pm 
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Okay, so I hooked up with this chick one night, kind of out of the blue. I got her number and we've been talking back in fourth through texts. Thing is, I kinda don't know what to talk about. She tends to ask me " what can you tell me" as a sort of conversation starter and I have no idea what to say. I don't want to be gay and talk about the weather. I looked on the internet and all the conv starter Ideas were fuckign retarded. I am seeing her this weekend probably. what do i talk about? help!?


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PostPosted: Thu Jul 30, 2009 3:56 pm 
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Whatever you want to talk about.


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PostPosted: Fri Jul 31, 2009 11:00 am 
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^^^^^^What he said.

Just talk about anything. If you can make it interesting while showing her that you're a cool guy then she'll be more than happy to continue the conversation and eventually exchange numbers, meet, and all that good stuff


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PostPosted: Fri Jul 31, 2009 11:21 am 
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If you present the topic with enough enthusiasm you can talk about anything. Hell, even cranberry picking can be made interesting, if you just tell it with enough energy.

If you really have nothing, just go watch a traveling documentary or something, when asking girls if they like traveling, 100% of them will say yes, even the ones who haven't ever left their town.

If you still don't feel 100% confident talking to girls, try this, it will instantly make you look way more confident:
Be aware of yourself when taking, don't rush the conversation, talk slowly and confidently, don't be afraid to pause, don't be stiff, gesture with your hands and body, don't speak in a monotone, don't be afraid to touch her, but don't stare at where you are going to touch.

I know it is quite a lot of things to be aware of, but just become aware of them and then be self-correcting.

Good luck

~TK


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PostPosted: Fri Jul 31, 2009 9:53 pm 
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haha hey buddy. You are feeling pressured because you are being put on the spot to say something interesting when really you have nothing on your mind that you think seems "worthy" to bring up. The other posts above are all pretty solid but make it easier on yourself, throw it back onto her. If she keeps making this "what can you tell me" stuff a frequent occurance call her out on it by teasing her lightly. I would even just talk about the cranberry picking just for shits and giggles because it would be jokes. It seems like you are focusing on making the conversation interesting for her when really you should approach it in a more "entertain me" mentality.


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