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I read somewhere on a PUA site, I think Mystery said it that "Attraction is not an option".
I think what he meant is that using techniques, teasing, push pull, DHV, the girl starts to FEEL that you're the man of her dreams (exaggerating) but she starts to feel some emotions. According to David DeAngelo he says something among the lines of:
Attraction is a mix of FEELINGS a person has, that ultimately lead to.. Attraction...
When you see someone good looking, you assume that person is intelligent, funny, blah blah (subconsciously) so you FEEL that he may be the one, hence you become attracted.
To the ones that are not as good looking as Brad Pitt or just any "hot" guy, we have to make a women FEEL those feelings through our stories, body language, and she will become attracted, and looks will matter nothing...
Is this true?
What do you guys think about this? I certainly believe in it (Hell, I WANT to believe 100% in it)
Sooo... opinions, thoughts, critics... Anything, discuss this matter! Lets hear it!!
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"Attraction Isn't A Choice" but no people can not help who they are attracted to most of the time.
Ever known a girl that always tends to dates assholes that don't treat her well. YEAH ME TOO! She is attracted to guys like that. Attraction defies past experiences, logic, and much more. It's a huge power to weild.
I'd actually recommend you checking out David D's Attraction Isn't A Choice Copyright 2004 book to learn more about it.
But yes, Attraction is Not A Choice, we can't help who we are attracted to. And if you know what triggers attraction then yes it can be created where there was none. I know it can because I've done it many times, and so have others.
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I have something bold to say:
If you meet a woman and interact with her long enough for her to form
an initial impression of you, and she feels no attraction for you, then
THERE’S BASICALLY NOTHING YOU CAN DO ABOUT IT! No amount of
kicking, screaming, calling, trying, buying her things, or taking her out will
do a damn thing about it.
If you meet a woman and interact with her long enough for her to form
an initial impression of you, and she DOES feel attraction for you, then
there’s nothing SHE can do about it! And no amount of logic, thinking about
it, or peer-pressure can stop it. In fact, some women will endure abuse,
neglect, and all kinds of other horrible things because they just can’t
overcome their own emotion of attraction.
Why do women feel strong attraction towards some men… and in many
or even most cases these men are not rich, handsome, or famous?
Because they CAN’T HELP IT.
Why do women feel zero attraction for some men, even though they
have all of the outward appearances of the ideal man?
Because they CAN’T HELP IT.
Think about that for a second or two.
A woman feels these things because she can’t help it. She can’t do
anything about it. To her, it’s experienced as just HAPPENING.
We’re dealing with a mechanism that is stronger than logic, stronger
than reason, stronger than a parent’s warning, and stronger than bad
experiences.
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