well, heres the story.

I work with this girl and been talking to her at work and on facebook...
she even starts the convo's half the time.
i was doing some CF stuff to her yesterday on FB. like she told me she had off from work and i said "oh no well if you not gonna be there then i should just call out, cause if your not there then whats the point?"
blah blah blah

ANYWAY.. she so happens to come into work today (coincidence?) and we talk for a lil and asks me what time i got off from work (unfortunately i was closing the store) then she say she's going mini golfing tonight with her friend and her boyfriend and says she gonna be the third wheel, which i tease her about.

a couple of hours later...iam on my break and i go on facebook from my phone and read her status and it says that shes going mini golfing with her friend and two other guys....

basically she lied about being the third wheel and thats why iam confused as to what i should do/think..

is it a good thing that she didnt want to tell me that she was going with some other guy?

all we've done is talk and nothing serious has happened (yet) but could it be she didnt tell me because she is interested?

I tend to over think alot about tricky situations like this one. I think its good for you that she didn't tell you about the other guy. Which means she didn't want you to know. She could be thinking she wants more from you but doesn't want to hurt you in the process. Another way of looking at it is, she did leave it up on facebook knowing you would have seen it anyway. Has she played like this before?

nope. i've only been talking to her for maybe a week or two.

a quick hi here and there b4 that.

I believe you over-think the situation a little bit. Facebook-statuses people put out all day long and usually it's not used as a tactic. Her starting the conversations half the time is not that big of a deal either. I wouldn't focus much on that at all.

What I believe though, is that she had a purpose telling you that she was the third wheel. It looks to me as she wanted you to come, but when you couldn't make it she still didn't want to be alone.

For future reference, girls like to communicate (mostly) in subtle ways. There is no way that she asked when you go off and tell you that story if she didn't want more contact with you.

- Exerio

Noted.

i only made that point to show that i know she is somewhat interested.

Case 1:
She wanted you to come with her, you didnt, she took some other company.

Case 2:
She wanted you to come with her, you didnt, her friend invited the other guys (Or something like that)

Anyway, I wouldnt care a shit about that. Do what ya want, its just one girl.

I'm not sure what the timing was for all of this but I would have to think the quoted is what possibly happened here. Her asking you when you get off and saying how she was the third wheel may have been a subtle invite. You teased her about it, which is fine, but then you should have changed gears. Since it seems like you left it at teasing her and didn't take the invite (if it in fact was one) she probably got someone else to go.

soo am i still good or did i lose her?

or does it not even matter?

Given that her asking you all that was her way of inviting you out somewhere, I would say are still pretty good right now. I would not hesitate to invite her out somewhere in the near future.

i agree, youre overthinking it way too much. she saw her FIRST CHOICE (you) couldnt make it, so she invited another.

Okay, I say this in other words:

You MAY HAVE lost one chance, you could have said something like "So what time we meet?" after she told you about minigolf.

But YOU HAVENT lost the "war", she is into you. Just go and ask her at job or wherever that if she wants come hang out with you during same day.

In this case Im 95% sure that she says YES. (If you want to know, 5% is for that if she busy). If she says she cant today, you name another that is ok to you.