Hey guys,

I would consider myself a moderately passionate guy. While this is a good quality to have to attract girls, it also means that I'm easilly affected especially when I'm trying to DHV and I get AMOG'ed or AFOG'ed by pointing out a quality of mine that is of lower value to the group.

What is the best way to deal with this?

Is there a trend to how you get AMOG'ed, is it about the way you dress, act, talk?

Most guys will point things about how you dress because number one, they are jealous they can't pull it off the same way you do. In reality who's value are they actually lowering. Does this girl think less of you because some other guy things your jeans are too tight and feels the need to put you down for it?

How to respond to it...

Don't put them down back, it will only feed the fire for them. Show her your the bigger man, your so confident in yourself that you are going to befriend this AMOG. Turn the comment around into a positive somehow. Hard to do I know but in the end he is the one that looks like an ass for picking on someone he doesn't even know. Creating social value is a very in depth topic.

What have you been AMOGed on maybe we can come up with an example.

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I think its in what I'm sub-communicating, I can't seem to figure it out but I tend to communicate my real internal thoughts (positives and insecurities) when I'm talking face to face. and it comes across as incongruent when I try to just DHV. Which is probably why I get AMOGed or shit tested. Does everyone else tend to sub-communicate thier inner world so openly? Does anyone know how to control their sub-communication?

Sounds like you need to work on your inner game, fix those insecurities.

What are you insecurities?

The non congruence your talking about. Do you run a lot of material or do mostly deal with inner game. The problem with material is that its not you, the gap between the material and your inner world is a hard gap to fill sometimes. All PUA material is so high energy high interaction that stepping back and for is going to make you look somewhat fake. Which in turn does not display social value because your are masking to try and gain approval

I think sapphire is correct, sounds like you need to build your inner game. The best way to do this I have found is to build your inner confidence. If you are genuinely a confident man people will notice when you just by walking into a room.

Another interesting for you to look into is raising the social value of a group actually raises your value. These AMOGers putting you down is not an attractive quality, real social value comes out of recognizing the situation and addressing it in a way the raises the social value of everyone. YOUR MAKE PEOPLE FEEL GOOD they wanna be around you!

PM me I can direct you to some good reading/listening material.

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