Hey everyone I've been here in LA for a couple of months now. I have a small group of guy friends that I usually roll with every Fri and Sat and occasionally a day during the week so I'm trying to get out there as much as possible. I was in a long term relationship for the last 5 + years so I'm still working on my game. I've had some success I must say using the techniques. Not nearly as much as I want. I have a very very small social circle here because of being the new guy.

I've found that the guys that I am competing with that can provide the women with much more entertainment, friends, and money have stolen some girls from me that I met and number closed and even F closed one. Even though they love me as a person. That is why I am here, I need help figuring out how to overcome this obstacle.

Welcome to LA. Bitches ain't shit here.

What type of venues do you go to? Your obstacle depends heavily on how you are presenting yourself and what kind of girls you're dealing with. Is there any common personality traits of these girls who ditched you for the one upper?

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We basically go wherever we know we can get in without being on a fuckin list. So I've never been to the cool clubs where if you're a guy you better be rich, famous, or know someone that is. But there are still good places to go to with no cover and a good crowd of course.

I met this girl on a weekday at a nice bar when she was just havin a drink with one of her girl friends that she knew from work. I dropped some routines and hooked her. We hung out for like a month straight. She's been in LA going to school for the last 4 years so she's basically from around here. Traits: fairly high energy, talkative, party girl, not a slut though. A few days later I'm sleeping in her bed. Sex took a couple weeks and about 10 dates/ hanging out days.

She ends up going away for the weekend on some yacht with a group of people she knows through one of her friends and ends up rekindling a relationship with a guy she met a week before me but he was out of the country for a month. Even though she was the one escalating our relationship further right before she left for the weekend, the day she gets back I get the "I think we should just be friends" line. The way I see it is that he has the friends, he's one of the cool guys to all the guys that she now thinks are cool, so his value was sky high. Even though she tells me how much she loves hanging out with me and what a great guy I am and wants to continue that.

I'm presenting myself with confidence, but when it comes to making plans, they are usually the ones doing it. Which I know is not good but I don't know the area much at all. I'm starting to, but I met this girl 4 days after I moved here.

So I am totally lost on how to get around that obstacle for this girl or the next girl.