Hey Just have a quick question about a situation i'm in. Ok there's this chick from
college that I'm into and we've been hanging out a few times recently and she's a
cool chick and I like spending time with her, but I want to take it up a level and
don't quite know how to do this. We hung out the other day and as she was leaving
I said "hey if you wanna hang out before classes start again let me know" trying to
be casual about the whole affair, anyway she said sure.

Anyway this is where things might've gone a bit downhill thanx to kronenburg
1664, after she left i met with a friend and had a few drinks and i stupidly texted
her seeing if she wanted to go to this bar the next night. I know texting is the
cowards way out etc that's why i previously said "stupidly texted her" . Anyway
that night i knew she was going out with her friends and getting on the piss so I
wasn't expecting a reply until the next day anyway. And as it happened I did get a
reply the next day saying "sorry my phone's broken, so no I can't make it tonight
to the bar". So I waited until the next day and texted her back saying "don't worry
it's cool I'd ended up making other plans anyway"

Actually i did leave out that the night that i texted her I had a date and hooked up
with another girl. Now this other girl I don't really like she's a bit of a bitch, but
she's got a hot body and a cute face and she wants to hook up and she's leaving in
a few weeks anyway so I know it don't mean shit to either of us...just a bit of fun.

Back to the main story I want to get something started with this other chick but I
don't want her to feel uncomfortable as I'd still like to be friends with her if things
don't go my way.

And another thing that's good about hooking up with this other girl in the meantime is that it makes me feel more confident and relaxed about the main girl which I know is a good thing

tl; dr

but i did read the part where u said u "stupidly texted" her. this is not so. i can and have turned simple text message convos into sex.... calling them is always so formal. dont think it makes you appear more like an alpha male to do one over another. texting is just me, i always have done it... if you are the phone call kind of guy, then stick with that.

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Don't feel uncomfortable and she won't feel uncomfortable. Easy as that. There is no spoon!