My name is Jesse. I'm a 20 year old musician. I was first introduced to the "The Game" by my friend, Cameron who has had some success. I began reading it but became more interested in "The Red Queen." I'm still planning on reading it sometime in the next two weeks though.

I'm an AFC. I was raised primarily by women so one would think that my understanding of them would be keen. But no. Instead, I grew up confused about women because impressions of women that were instilled in me as a child didn't reflect in situations I encountered w/ them later.

My "game" is only good through the opener and then I'm lost unless the girl has much in common w/ me. I'm about an honest 7 with my looks so it isn't hard getting adds on myspace. I encounter many opportunities w/ women but can never seems to take things to an intimate level. There's all kinds of hot girls on my friends list, but I wouldn't have the means to make advances.

My friend's frustration is what most likely lead him toward Neil Strauss. I share his frustration and also seek the means to make the most of my opportunities w/ women. I hope to meet interesting people here that can help me do that.

Welcome mate, plenty of the experienced people here to help you (the mods for one )

All the best bud!

hey man, I know what you feel like, I am not a bad looking guy and ive always been really friendly so I had an easy time making female friends, but I really never knew how to take things anywhere with them..I always just had friends,. but nothing else,. something totally frustrating...

But nowadays after getting in to the game and learning lots of things, I am doing much better. ive been dating a lot and feeling much more confident.
I dont think of myself as a PUA, but not AFC anymore either (I was a world champion AFC before,. no self confidence) but Im midway maybe , doing really well in comparisson to what I was in the past.

I never heard about the red queen, ill check it out