hey guys, ive hit a brick wall and am rediculously confused by this girl (HB9)...

background..

Met her on an online dating site, started chatting and after about 3 weeks decided we would meet, met her 2 weeks ago, had a great time (just decided to keep it simple and meet for drinks)... she texted me straight after the date and said she really enjoyed herself and i suggested another date 5 days later and we met for a bite to eat and a few drinks, i dropped her off and got a kiss close (not a full on snog but a kiss on the lips)..... we then arranged to do something different the next time we met and goto the coast we arranged a date for yest (sunday).

however we text constantly and i was saying last wednesday how my housemate was away for a week and i wasnt doing anything on friday night, she suggested coming arround and we had a few drinks and watched a dvd, bit of cuddling on the sofa and the odd kiss (not snog), she then stayed over and without any effort from me she escalated it loads and i ended up reciving a hand job and fingering her.... we met yesterday for our date on the coast and there was hardly any physical contact, we came back to mine to watch a dvd she coudled up to me on the sofa and again we had a kiss (not snogging) and i dropped her off home! she then txted me sayin how much of a good time she had, i replied with the same and said it would be nice to see you again if your interested! ... she replied with ....

Her : yeh, just one thing... im still getting over my ex and its nice spending time with you but feels a bit strange sometimes, maybe not plan anything - bit of spontinaity, and and see how things happen, sorry just want to be honest x"

Me: "understand, we have all been there, really enjoyeed spending some time with you, can just give you some space and take it from there i guess x"

Her: sorry ive enjoyed spending time with you too, think just see how things go, night night penguin (nickname lol) x

at this point i decided that i wouldnt text her for a while and give her 'space' however..... she texed this morning and has been texting me all day!!

i really dont know where i stand and im now confused!! what do i do next???

any help would be great guys

Women are naturals with push/pull and other tenstion loops. She's pulling this without even knowing it. Looks to be a good sign. It may also be a shit test as well, but I'm starting to think everything is a shit test so I need to recalibrate.

Sounds like you aren't escalating enough. She seems to be the one who initiates everything, from what you told. You need to man up, she probably feels weird being the one who has to initiate everything. Let it chill for a couple days, then tell her about someplace you're going this weekend. Don't invite her, just tell her and see how she reacts.

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in terms on anything physical i initiated everything but didnt really get many signs back (apart from when she did it in the bedroom) however ...... she has just invited me round tonight!!!

will let you know how it goes !

I think you should move on any women stuck on her ex, I would not wanna be apart of it ... I think the most you might get is a good friend ... but obviously something went wrong either to fast, or just not enough game to sweep her off her feet .... I would keep it moving ...

Your game will improve if you erase 90% of her texts and pretend it didn't exist. Also . . . go get a pair of ear plugs.

Don't allow her to "leak" her sexual tension through all that yap, yap, and texting. If you reply to her and comfort her verbally everytime, you'll help her satisfy her needs. What you want to do is to build it up and build it up until she can't take it anymore and stuffs your cock in her mouth for survival.

You're wasting too much time thinking about. Remain unaffected. Tease her. Change the subject if she brings up the past. Act as if you don't give a fuck and have a big grin as though you just got a blow job. She will be drawn to you and chase you if you demonstrate higher value.

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