I have been having sex with a girl who i am not dating and i told her "when i come over (i didn't ask ) i can promise you the best sex of your life sound good? and she said cool

Hope this ain't against the rules because i am about to go a little graphic
my main idea is to thrust slowly at first to tease her than hard ones and i guess plan to feel her tits and ass(great ass ) and lick her body

hoping anyone can give me tips for at least decent sex if not great since this is only my 4th time

any and all help appreciated

There's no substitute for experience, but don't make yourself follow a rigid structure like that. It just makes things seem mechanical. Instead get yourself in the right mindset. You could read David Shade's Secrets of Female Sexuality to get a good idea of how to go about that.

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hahaha its all in the foreplay man
im guessing this is ur first time??
well my first time i was blacked out drunk, sadly
but sumhow i did great.
just dont forget to be prepared
safety first lol
get her going with foreplay cuz the average time for vaginal sex is like 7 minutes or something like that.
so get her warmed up, then do the thang, then when u bust, go for more foreplay, and when ur ready, go again, then just repeat til ur tired. lol.
good luck

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just have fun and you will never be dissapointed

thanks man it is my 4th but that is some good advice but like last time she wanted to keep giving me a bj but i had already busted so she was wasting her time not that it didn't feel good plus it was hard not to laugh when she made funnynoises accidentally lol

How long can you last? Its important to be able to last long. I forget the name of it, but there is a muscle (the one you use to stop yourself from peeing) and it is possible to exercise this muscle any time you are sitting around. Just contract it, like you are stopping a flow of urine, then release. Contract and release. Try doing that ten times a day. Pretty soon you will have total control over when you cum and you can have bj's for hours.

Also, do you know where the g-spot is? Put a finger inside her and tilt it towards her belly-button until you feel something rough, kind of make your finger do the "come here" gesture and you will feel it. Then play with this area. She will go insane and she'll feel like she is going to pee but what is really going to happen is she going to have the best orgasm ever. Do this and she'll love it and you will own that manpocket.

Oh, and wear a condom.

i agree with metalpua on the last two things

i heard about that first part a couple years ago and have been doing it ever since, but i still cant hold in an orgasm worth a shit. i think its all in the head. sometimes i can avert my attention to something else and it helps a little but really i dont think that muscle contraction works.

but another piece of advice is a pretty good field tested result. drink LOTS of water.
1. its good for you
2. if you really have to pee before you are about to have sex. hold it in. and its a long explanation. but it lengthens the sex time.

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How good are you at oral? I dont see many guys mentioning that and i didnt see you mention it at all. I have worked on my oral game for a long time now and think im pretty good at it (not gloating). But ive had several girls who never liked it ask for it every time afterwords or even beg for it. It takes practice but i read alot of books and developed my own stratigy. Going for the G-spot is a good one but it usually helps to build her up 1st before you go for it. because sometimes they are too sensitive and if you go straight for that then its uncomfortable and they stop you. I usually use my tongue and if you work the area between the hole and her clit it build her excitment and then you slowly use a finger to massage the very outer part of the hole. Almost teasing like. It will drive her crazy. Then after shes good a worked up hit her clit a couple of times. You will be able to tell when shes ready for you to go all out on her. If you do this just right she will orgasm many times and even beg your to screw her. Ive even had girls ask me how i learned that sine they didnt even know they could feel that good. Good luck.

Skankin

screw her all over the house . straight up bed sex is common and will blend in . oh and have a shower after , theyl love that . dont wory about grabbing her boobs and ass that is a given :D .

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Except with the same lady skills

It's about the foreplay. Biting her neck and nibbling her ears are weaknesses
They get so hot for that. Just keep focused on pleasuring her (or else face the wrath of blowing one in your jeans)