So this forum is all about how to try and get women, but my problem is pretty much the opposite. After a night out u go see a lovely girl, take her back to yours, have fun etc etc. But the next day you kinda don't want her hangin around and trying to get too attached to you after one night, whats the nicest way of trying to get rid of her?

would you kindly leave my house now?

But seriously, you had fun, the girl had fun. end of the deal. you know, she knows. It's not really something to be bothered about. You can still keep in touch. but that's up to you.

you see this is the problem, if you both know its a bit of fun - no problem.

But what might happen is that you see as a little bit of fun, but she might see it as being something a little bit more serious. I think I need to know is how can you sort of tell her that the night before was nothing serious and just fun and games without hurting her too much.

Keep her around. Get a BJ in the morning. Find out who she really is. You might be missing out on some really great girls just because you wanna dump them right away...

Fair point, but you see i did something silly,

I went out one night, i was having fun and had alot to drink and i manage to get a hb8 to come back to my place for some fun......
However the next day when i woke up a little bit more sober and no longer had the beer goggles on and she was no longer a hb 8 but alot less.

You might laugh but i pretty sure everyone has done this before sometime in their life! To be honest i didnt really want her to stick around mainly cos i was hungover and kinda pissed off

Haha! We all get tricked by our mind sometimes, especially when you drink.
But remember, you invited her over. It is not fair for her to just throw her out again right away. And if you had a headache you could just tell her you don't feel alright.

It seems to me that you take this a bit too serious, it is not like she is going to stay there forever:)

- Exerio

lol you'll be surpize . She might be one of those girls that will. stage 5 clinger. This is what happends when you drink to much -_-. you can kindy ask her to leave or tell her you dont feel to good and want to be alone. whats done is done, if she insist on being clingy just let her know that your not going for that and you were just having fun.

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Haha, that is very true! What I meant though is that it is highly unlikely that she will stay in your house forever. When she leaves, stop talking to her or say that you didn't really think of it more of a ons.

I feel it's kinda rude to kick a girl out an hour after having sex, but of course, if she is a maniac it is kinda obvious that this is what you have to do ;p

- Exerio

You could probably just cut the situation in half by going back to theirs instead...im a bad sleeper, and having a girl try to sleep with me in my single bed is a nightmare, so (When Im at uni) when I hook up with a girl, I try my best to go back to their flat, and then after the 'hows your father' goes down, I just say "oh Ive got training early in the morning, gunna go back to mine to sleep, give me your number and/or name and I'll give you a call later...the trick is to get there full name, that way in the morning when your sober you can give them a quick facebook check to see if she really was a HB8 or not haha...alittle shallow, but lets be honest you not going to get attracted to an unattractive girl just because you were drunk and slept with her.

another reason why i rather go to her place then mine. Being in the states is not that bad but here in japan.. the girls get alittle clingy.. had one girl stalk me when i go out to bars or clubs with my friends. thank goodness she doesnt know where i live. Another girl wouldnt leave my house just because she liked my house and its roomy. i told her " hey if you wanna stay any longer i'mma have to make you pay rent." I wouldnt mind a live-in maid a 3 bedroom 2 bathroom house is hard to clean when your the only one living in it -_-.

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tell her that you have to go to work....so she has to start getting ready to go because if you have anyone in the house besides you...your landlord will flip his lid...

The last SNL i had to kick out, i did like this. I went to kitchen and texted one of my friends who I knew would be awake. (call me in 10 miutes with a reason for me to pick you up, some asian bitch i picked up won't get out of here) after 15 mins and no response, i sent the same text to 3 more friends. within 5 minutes my phone was exploding with friends calling with made up stories about how I had to come and get them. I kicked her out, got in my car, drove a way up the freeway and then came home. and the Oscar goes to ........Sub-Zero, for how to pretend your on your way to fixing a flat tire!!!!!!!

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