Obviously, I'm going to say INNER GAME INNER GAME INNER GAME! There are plenty of resources out there to help you NLP yourself and get in state. Replacing self-limiting beliefs with new positive beliefs, bla bla bla.

In the meantime... next time you're at the bar and you see a woman you are attracted to and want to approach but are getting some anxiety....

Pick out 4 thinks that turn you OFF about her. Maybe her hair is a little too stringy, maybe her eyes are the slightest bit crooked, maybe she's got a birthmark on her arm...

Pick out four things, realize she's JUST A PERSON and GO APPROACH!

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It's called a break in rapport... and if done well, it works. Try it out, gather some data and see how girls respond to YOU OUT IN THE FIELD.

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Yes.

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HEY GUYS!

I'M BACK!!!!!

I'll answer the rest of these questions tomorrow. Right now, it's cocktail and bed time

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Hi Zip, that must have been one terrific cocktail because you've been gone for Long now

We would like your prospective on my questions. Thanks.

Hey there Zip, got a quick question for you

Lets say a girl meets some boy (heh), now he is pretty bad at the game and nothing comes out of it (he is probably portraited as a nice/ok guy but no attraction is formed). how plausible is it to form attraction later on?

I was experimenting with game....and lies....which I know I shouldn't do....just wanted to find out if it's true you can escalate kino very quickly if a gal thinks your gay...well...I told a promo model this and she's totally buying it. I know physically she's also attracted to me.

We talk dirty over texts and she's coming to my bday in a month....told her I've always wondered how it feels to be with a women....

....I'd like to be straightforward from here on out....and feel bad for "faking" it this one time on her.....

Suggestions???

I could tell her how much of a liar I am....or I could say she's turned me bi....or I could just do her in the but hole....lol....ok....but ....all jokes aside....any suggestions?

Oh,....and she's a 9 on the looker scale....personality is up there too....vibrant gal.

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Dear zip,

I have a slight problem... I have terrible posture and I come off as an unconfident person my friends call me the sloucher.. Anways what I wasnte to ask you how should I hold myself to give off a good vibe, and while your at it I would appreiciate it if you named poeple from movies/ tv shows I can model after

Thanks

Dear Zip,

Haven't talked to you in a while - however, got a question. Do girls necessary like to be called hot? I saw some videos and they don't really like that word maybe more on the terms of being called beautiful, sexy or goregous.

The reason of my question is that I have a friend of mine, that for one I don't really understand how this method works but apparently it does. He talks about this one chick on myspace wanting to screw him and blah blah blah. He commented on this girl's photo, "You are so hot!" In my opinion - this tells the girl that the guy just wants is between their legs. She commented back, "Thanks for the add and the photo comment ;D".

Oh, before you get any weird ideas - it's on our official paranormal group account on myspace. So both he and I share it but he does most of the work with networking and getting out the word about our group.

Sum it up, how in the world does this method work? I know it's direct game - but also, I learned it's better for the girl to earn the compliment then give them out for free.

I know I rambled on a bit - however, I'll work on getting to the point next time. Peace!

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It's possible. This "nice/ok" guy needs to build some "bad boy" social proof (check out entourage or meta game by AFC Adam) and she'll most likely be attracted. The rapport you already have improves your chances once you start flipping attraction switches.

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Okay, yes, you can escalate when someone thinks your gay. However, you're fucked now because you lied and it's not the same night you met her.

Now, you're just a liar.

Here's the situation... you don't pretend you're gay. If someone tries to AMOG you in front of this chick by saying you're gay... you say, "yeah. I am. Anyway...." and that's how you recover. The bonus is that you can up the kino without usual resistance.

If you are joking around with her and say, "too bad I'm gay, or I would be so into you" and run with it... fine. Then you go for the kiss, and prove you're not gay by the end of the night.

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pull your shoulders back and press your shoulder blades down your back. you want to feel like someone tied a string to the top of your head and is pulling you up from your spine while your tailbone stretches down through the floor.

you want to walk with confident, sure, and long strides. you want to feel relaxed and surefooted.





movie stars: Brad Pitt in TROY and Legends of the Fall

Don't follow James Dean just yet... he's too broody in his posture

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Here's the thing... girls hear "you're so hot" all the time. It's cheesy. Especially online or just randomly on the street (catcalls.) Now, if you're in conversation with a woman and you're going Mode One Direct: whatever you want to say is fine.

So it's situational. If you're online trying to get the word out about your group... I'd refrain from saying anything that makes girls think you're hitting on them. It's not like she's going to get a comment on her picture on myspace, say "omg he thinks I'm hot!!!" and message the guy to set up a date.

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Hello Zip. A question I get asked a lot when I'm out on a date is "describe your ideal woman".

I guess what I want to know is: a) what are they really trying conveying to me by asking this, b) what are they really trying to ascertain and c) how should I approach answering ?.

Cheers,

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Hello zip!
Im a guy who likes to sponge information and learn everything so could you suggest me a good book in a girls point of view concerning gameing women. You know. Some book which you have readed and after that just said " whow, so true! ". Something that includes techniques and stuff.
The books that i have allready finnished: The game, Vin DiCarlo s all books, mystery method and Doubble your dateing.

[ Johnny B ]

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