Hello my fellow peeps!! My name is John aka Vanquish. And yes you read right I'm in the middle of a 4 year dry spell. I moved out here to Arizona about 4 years ago, and absolutely no action of any kind since I left California. I had a high school sweetheart who cheated on me twice! And being the push over I am I let it slide.

I have a serious case of AA, which frustrates me because when I'm just around friends and family I'm very fun and witty. I wish I can be like that all the time then I would have no problem around woman. I do have girls who are friends with me but I can never brake out of the "just friends" mindset. I have a bad case of the "nice guy" syndrome.

I promised my self that I would get a handle on this mental problem of mine. Its been long enough, and its started to affect other parts of my life. Its not just about getting laid anymore, its about being happy with myself and feeling confident and not feeling like just half a man.

Looking forward to talking with you all!!!

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"Keep doing what you've always done, you'll keep getting what you've always gotten"

Hey man, welcome to the community, sucks about the dry spell but you've come to the right place. The best place to start is read 'The Game' by Neil Strauss if you already haven't and just have alook through the noobie section of the forum, you'll realise theres alot of guys in all different sorts of situtations, and there all improving. Good luck man and have fun!

Hey Vanq,

The Arizona girls are sweet like the desert sunshine. And game works on them.

Post your progress. You'll get better.

You can meet local wings at arizonapua.com.

esq.