So there is this cute girl I am really into *stating the obvious* longtime ago I told her I'd like to take her to some place down a village that's known for being haunted (loads of B.S. but most people take it), anyways she declined, so Time went by, I kept ignoring her, and obviously what happens 2 months later ? I get a text message from her saying " would u like to take me to this haunted place ?" (not many people know the exact location) so, I decided to play hard to get waited a week then texted her " tonight seems perfect" she then responded " REALY? " then I said " yes " she then replied " oh well im with a friend tonight, maybe next time " where is my mistake well, I should have answered " No youd be too scared " cause she was shit testing me. anyhow caught in the heat of the moment I sent her "fine there wont be another time" now I'm stuck and I don't know where to take off. I'd like to note that she lives in a remote location that quite far away from my area for summer.

Firstly ,damn... 2 months later ? i think thats a pretty long punishment u gave her for not complying the first time lol.

when she replied saying " would u like to take me to this haunted place ?", u shoulda went cocky + funny ( said soemthing like : Iono im quite tha busy man, but i guess i can pen u in my schduel ! lol ) and then schdueled a date ( u already gave her a 2 month punishment no need to play harder to get ,she gets it . )

When u did reply with " tonight seems perfect" u must of forgotten that tonight is TONIGHT, not everyone isn't doing anything lol its why dates are schdueled in the first place to guarantee availability. Her saying " Maby next time ", is a girls way of letting u know that the world doesnt just stop when u want it in a playful way.

Other then that if u want to sew up things with her and recover from that AFC answer , i would call her INSTEAD of txting. and act as if i never said /texted that sort of reply and if she refers to it again act as tho u completely forgot about it , turn it into a joke ( C + F ).

Pretty much let her know your still cool and u were jus screwin around/ didnt think she would take it so serious she lock her sense of humor ina box ?
GL !

When you waited the first time you were doing like a mini freezeout on her negative response the first time. She probably eventually wondered what you were up to because you never pursued her (which is a good thing) and wanted to get your attention. When she came back that she wanted to go I would have told her yes in one way or another, and given her a time then, something like, "Sure, I'm working Friday but I have Saturday evening free." Sort of downplay your interest and don't sound super excited, save all that for when you are out there. This sort of response will let her know you're still interested, but downplay your excitement to take her out there, therefore making you look cooler!

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