A while ago I met this girl at this party but I never really got the chance to talk to her. A couple days after that party I realized that she was attracted to me and her friend came up to me and Gave me her number. A couple days later I started to Text this girl but this was when I didn't know the proper way to game so I did not get very far. After a while we stopped texting. Then a few months later I learned about the game and I was eager to put it in to practice. The first thing I sent her was, do I know you? And she got the idea that I was just saying that because we haven't talked in so long. And I went on from there with negs, push pull, comfort and just finding out things that we can relate to. She really started to get interested and suggested to se each other soon. Two days before we saw eachother we talked on the phone for 5 hours we really hit it off and we were building a great connection. That day that we hung out we went to her house and started to talk. Then I noticed her guitar in her room and I remembered that she wanted me to play for her. I got on the subject of this new song that I wrote (which was written for her) so she went and got the guitar. I told her that I just don't share my talent with anybody for nothing. So I suggested a kiss If she turned out to like it. After I finished the song she told me she loved it and she gave me a kiss on the cheek. Then she turned on a movie and I asked her what she really thought about the song. She told me what she liked about it. Then we kept watching the move and that is when I started with the kino escalation. I started stroking her hair then she layed on my leg which was a clear IOI. When she kept looking up at me I would poke her nose or tickle her arm. The second time she looked up I leaned in and we started to hook up. We had a very strong connection all night and we seemed perfect for each other. At the end of the night I left my guitar pick in the strings of my guitar and I told her I wanted it back the next time we meet. I told her the pick meant a lot to me and has written many songs. Then I kissed closed and left. The next day she was the first to text me and she was very excited to talk to me. Then later that day whe seemed upset and I asked what the problem was and she asked if we could be friends for now. She said her feelings for me the previous night were more than friends. I was very shocked and confused so I stated my raging feelings for her and how I can't see us being friends and how I respect her choice. She told me there is another guy that she isn't allowed to see that she is trying to get over but can't so she thought it would be unfair for me for her to have feelings for someone else. So i accepted it but I still really like her and I would like to be with her in the future. Does anybody have any suggestions on what I could do to help me be with her after she is over that other guy? And she showes that she still has feelings for me so I know that it is not a lost cause. She said friends for now.

Act like it dosent bother you because you are pre selected and high value in your mind, go and meet 10 other women see how you feel about her then. You could introduce one other girl that you gamed previously or in the near future to her for a jealousy plot. I've found that in my experience jealousy is the best way for her to realize that she is attracted to you.

If she starts to invest in you again Kino escalate again. Thats how i'd do it.

What I did is I stopped flirting with her and I acted like I was no longer interested. I also stopped texting her for a few days to test if she still had me on her mind and she finally texted me back after 4 days which was a good sighn. I havnt brought up any girls yet bit I am planning on it. But how should I approach her on how she feels about me? We havnt hung out since that night. How do I keep her feelings for me strong if we don't have the chance to hang out?

Similar thing happened to me earlier this week. I posted a thread about it in the "Closes and Day 2" forum talking about being "hung up on an ex". this seems to be a very common problem(excuse?) these days.. more and more girls are pulling that out as a reason not to pursue anything past the first night.

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