How do i respond to this? What does it mean? I'm lost.. ? idk but i've been told this quite a few times and each time it turned out differently..

What's the context? What led them to say this?

well let's see my ex is constantly telling me how she wants to be with me as i neg her because it's been a while and i want to try to fuck her again.. and i end up getting serious about it and telling her why i don't want to be in a relationship and she says nothing i ever do or say is good enough for you, then i say somethin like it's ok and then she goes back to bein a bitch.. i don't know the right response to it.. i've also heard it from a girl i had kinda been interested in and she seemed clingy so i played her off and then she popped it outa nowhere too.. i'm thinking i'm dlving them to much.. or maybe negging to much?? idk...? i don't want a relationship i just want sex.. i'm in the army and haven't found a girl to trust enough to actually commit myself to..

Ugh, this has my ex girlfriend written all over it. The easy way out (mind you this is in the context of a relationship) is not to downplay or neg everything they say. You may be negging some of the things they talk about with you too hard. The flip side of the coin is that they are probably just feeling inadequate because they want a relationship and you don't, and this is their way of justifying why (in their crazy fucked up heads) you don't like them. I hate it too man, you'd think as hot as women find security in guys they'd have some themselves.

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yeah but the thing is it always seems to come at the wrong times.. like i won't talk to her then outa nowhere she will say hey and fuck with my head all over again but i play it cool and don't stress it then she throws some luvy dubby shit at me and it pisses me off cuz she's in a relationship now tryin to tell me she loves me and does it to other dudes too.. so i know she's fuckin around but the hardest thing is to push her to the side.. ya know?