Well Hi

I AM .... a former idiot. Until I found this site and started improving myself for the greater good. OF course im still a newbie or I wouldn't be asking questions like these, but I thought I should introduce myself first

I have been LJBF'd by this girl. like twice before.

Thought i got over her and after goin for some other targets, surprise surprise the feeling came back.

I've been in her friend zone for so long that Im willing to change completely just to get out of it.

the last two times I've been out with her, I've managed to change my normal boring attitude to a more dominant, kino escalating direction. This being said I believed things are starting to get slightly better. however just now I ran into her bitch side for the second time in my 4 years of knowing her. and I was wondering how to handle it.

Basically what happened is we planned to go out with another friend of mine for dessert, but due to conflicts in time + the fact that she and I are both freakin sick, I asked her if she wanted to postpone it on msn. and this is what happened:

me: Wanna postpone for a week?
her: fine
her: whatever
me: whatever?
me: tsk thats nice
her: whatever
me: whatever go sleep then ( she mentioned it before how she's coughing, feels disgusting, and is going to sleep)
me: get well soon disgusting girl
her: shut up bitch

now in normal conversations, we might say somethin like that for fun. But in this case her saying shut up bitch completely pissed me off so i just left it at that cuz i didnt wanna ruin what Im working for. But in return I still need to demonstrate dominance the next time we talk cuz god damn it pissed me off. this conversation is nothing like how it normally goes, btw for anyone who's here to criticize on how this ain't how it supposed to be. I was aiming more towards friend then tryin to game her as I was sensing some anger.

But yeah, any ideas on what to do for this? I can't exactly pretend that didn't happen cuz thats just wussy imo.

thanks

Is this a case of one-itus I'm sensing?

i agree with brendito you got to lossen up a bit

and really its better to be face to face rather than msn
on msn there is no kino, no tone of voice and its easy to be misunderstood

SIMPLE ANSWER: with all due respect get the fuck off your computer and go somewhere with the girl

well for once im not makin excuses, but face to face doesnt work at that time as it was late,

phone doesn twork either cuz i lost my voice due to some f'd up flu virus goin on here

so yeah.. no worries im a bit more chill now... But still i get a feeling that i shouldn't let that go without sayin somethin about it the next time I see her.


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thanks for the replys tho