Ok guys heres the story,
Ive known about the game for a year or so now, but only really started getting more involved with it (routines, games etc) earlier this year.
Now, im after this girl who I work with, we really hit it off one night (I think). I demonstrated higher value to her, and played the 5 questions game with her, and then just other random chat. Anyway afterwards she left me home, and im fairly sure I could have kiss closed her, but didn’t (yea, I chickened out), regretted it ever since, but even more determined to put it right.
Anyway, was working with her again recently and I was throwing all these playful negs at her, and just being real confident and cocky.
My mate who I game with, also works in the same place, and he was working with her there the other night. She started telling him that she didn’t like the 5 questions game that I played. Basically the forfeit that we agreed to was that the loser had to ask the next customer for their number (she lost obviously, but then backed out of the forfeit).
Shes quite hard to talk to when out in a club, as her mates are absolute idiots, and can get very immature when drunk.
So have any of you guys any ideas as to my next move? Or where I should go from here?

sorry bout the long post
thanks in advance guys

I think you have to move on and pursue other women. I am not a big fan for gaming women at work I always take it has your not dealing with enough women outside of work. When you are at work it should almost feel like some kind of break to get away from all the women your dealing with.

Anyway there are two signs here you need to take into account 1. she told your friend she didn't like the game you played. 2. she backed out of the deal so she would'nt have to give her phone number to you.

These two are major and are indicators that she is not into you so take my advice and deal with other women and remember we don't chase!

yea mate dont worry, im not gettin too hung up on her. its only a part time job im in as well.
just to clarify things tho, she didnt back out of the deal for my number, the forfeit was that the loser of the 5questions game had to ask the next customer that came into the shop for their number. a few guys came in including a guy that was chasing her before, (but who's a bit of a clown) so i basically ended up laughing about it and teasing her. naturally she became embarrassed.

any1 any other thoughts on the matter?

Personally i have trouble giving up on someone. What i might try to do is let her cool off. maybe approach some other girls. I dont know where you work, but if you bring another girl by it can spark some of that jealousy we love so much

Either way you should probably not game her for a while. If you playfully neg for a prolonged period of time and then don't make a move chicks often just start to think your being a jackass. (personal experience)

Take is as you see it though. gl

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yea think im gonna leave it for a while, was out there last nite, and so was she, but she was actin like a little bitch lol
think il jus blank her for a while, even in work, make her feel like shes done something wrong, see how that works, but anyways, im not even that fussed about her anymore

well guys quick update on this situation, this happened a few weeks ago now but ive been away for a while, so only posting now.

basically me and a mate were out one nite, and saw the girl, so we waved at her from across the room. she turned away, as if to say, "what the fuck are you's waving at me for"

so later on that night i tell her in no uncertain terms that her heads up her arse.

btw, she came out with the usual girl response, and tried to tell ones i was sleazing all her over her, even tho the only time i talked to her was for like 2mins, and was standing literally 2foot away.
plus i dont really drink so i know exactly what was going on, whereas she can end up pretty drunk after a few soft drinks

ive no regrets - she deserved it

so anyway, workin with her 2nite for the first time since, wasnt sure how 2 go about it, so i ended up just ignoring her completely. she did try and initiate a few conversations, and was kinda lingering around near me at times, as if she wanted me to talk to her.
only time i really spoke to her, i asked her what was wrong with her that nite - she replied "nothing", so i just laughed and was like "aw well" at which point she told me that her ex-boyfriend was trying to hang round her and her friends all nite. so i left it at that.
im workin with her again soon tho, and really want to ask her why she said i was sleazing all round her etc, but not sure if i shoud, or just leave it. i kinda think she knows she was in the wrong.

anyway guys, what do you's think? shud i quiz her about it, or just leave it?

ive already a gud few replies lined up for a bit of DHV. i.e if she maintains that i was sleazing round her (which i 100% wasn't btw), il jus reply, "dont flatter yourself", then just be like, look if i wanted to kiss you, id have done it already etc.

any input greatly appreciated guys

thanks in advance