Hey guys, I have a co-worker who i have just recently met and i know this may sound corney and lame, but I just cant stop thinking about her.

We talk a lot and she is always beside me asking me if her earrings looks good on her, if the blouse she is wearing today good looking. We talk about romance and stuff. She has a boyfriend of 1.5 years and it is her first boyfriend. I just found out when I was talking about my ex girlfriend.

What should I do guys, I just cant stop thinking about her. she is funny, nice, I mean she is different from all the girls I have met.

Any advise on how I can win her. I told her that I always get what I want. and she looked into my eyes and smiled at me and touched my hand.

sounds like from your last line of that your foot is in the door pretty well. Is it possible she is lying about having a boyfriend. Even if she does, you can still persue her just as you would if she were single. Avoid talking about relationships past or present however.

WOW! Really?! UHHH NO!!..

Now.. you got to understand that she has a BF.. there's a lot of members here would say to find another girl.. and plus keep profession away from pleasure.. now.. on this matter.. i somehow agree.. (i've been there and done that my friend.. and actually currently in the same position you are in.. but backwards.. not getting into it.. )

Okay.. if you are going to pursue this.. then you have to do this indirectly.. don't show that you are interested.. but show that you are interesting.. drawing a girl to you.. what you could do first is STOP THINKING ABOUT HER!.. if you keep doing this.. there's a chance you could slip and come off as desperate and needy and you will ruin your chances.. 2nd thing is go out with other girls that ARE single.. this will show that you CAN get what you want.. you are live a fun exciting positive life.. now when you do conversate with her.. keep the flirtatious going but know that there is a line to it.. and show her that you would not cross that line due to her having a BF.. now.. if she got interested in you.. and know that the only way she could get to you is to leave her BF.. then that's her decision.. but it's a win win situation for you..

why? because you're going out with girls.. and maybe later.. you would have a chance to go out with her.. but make sure to STOP THINKING ABOUT HER SO MUCH!

Ok sounds good. I will do this and fight it, to be honest she is the only girl that has made this much of an impact on me. But, Ill take your advise and date other women and show her that I am fun.

okay 4 this one I dont have a answer but. I can tell u this don't! Talk to her abaut her BF ?! Even if its bad or good. This is like a shit test. Evoid the conversation.(or simple as that chang the conversation. If u talk abaut realation ships good but not her Bf or xs

I avoid relationship talk all together in these situation but irwin is right, DONT NOT BRING UP HER BF!! if she does don't inquire further about it, don't relate it to yourself, don't play the 'well im better than him because.... card' just push away from the topic.

Best of luck brother

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