...of giving a girl my phone number instead of getting hers.

I met her recently at a friends wedding reception (of all places) and got on really well with her. Plenty of kino etc etc but she then had to leave suddenly and I felt too rushed to ask for her number or give her mine. Anyway we added each other on the dreaded facebook, and to my surprise when I messaged her saying something like "I would really like to do something with you sometime, if not no worries etc etc" she replied by saying that she would really like to and that we should meet up soon, and asked me where i lived etc.

so far so good...

Anyway so then i royally f**ked up and said "okay gimme a call when your free on 07 yadda yadda"

So now i've trapped myself into waiting to hear from her, which of course is driving me mad. I know she's actually abroad at the minute for a few days with work so i'm hoping thats why I havent heard from her.

Basically guys any advice on what I should do / or should not do next would be really appreciated. I dont want to let this one slip through my fingers if I can help it.


Cheers,

Jay

anyone?

i wouldn't stress about it so much if you know she's away on business you can't expect her to drop everything she's doing and call you she will when she will there's nothing you can really do about it that's the situation you kinda got yourself in by giving your number to her, important thing is to realize that's not always the best of moves but at the same time there's ten billion way more stupid things you could've done and it sounds as though she very well might be interested too so relax go out with your friends, meet new people because the whole point of all of this don't forget is to talk to as many women as possible if not to give yourself more options to give yourself practice in social situations, test your own negs, conversation topics, openers , etc. so whenever you do see this girl next your a little more seasoned

im sure she's very nice and all but you need the mindset that she is still just one girl of many on this planet and that SHE needs to prove herself to YOU too

and personally when she does call you back i woudln't answer right away, let it ring and go to voicemail and call her back a little later on so as to make it seem like you were doing something important and your not just sitting by the phone

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yeah that sucks doesnt it. i have done that before but it didnt really feel like a trap. u really should have number-closed. bummer huh? no worries though man just get her number from facebook and txt her when YOU have the free time. say something like " Hey im going to do _________ wanna tag along? PUA's never date. AFC's do. but inviting them to something your doing is being the alphamale. She is on your watch. Or u can wade it out and wait for a response which is unlikely. Hopefully i helped you

MAXXIM

couldn't said it better myself.. you need to start conversating to other girls.. and stop thinking about one specific girl too much.. it's a lesson learned.. and i bet you wouldn't do that again are you?! and also.. take CONTROL everything around you! meaning.. TIME.. WOMAN.. SITUATION.. you need to control time so you won't feel rushed.. control the woman.. so she gives you her number.. and have HER going crazy thinking about YOU too much.. and the situation.. because you're an ALPHA!