The "F*@k Off" response!!!



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PostPosted: Fri Jun 19, 2009 11:58 pm 
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Do you really want to date a girl like that in the first place??
it's her loss anyway... where the hell she could find a more better guy than you or any good PUA? if she says that to you it's her loss! btw: if it was your mistake and you've deserve that response, you should work on your sticking point and don't get it personally
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either work on your approach with better body language/appropriate delivery or.. shes a bitch

the end.

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It depends on the frame you want to get out of it.

Personally I would tip my hat to them and say "its been a pleasure" then walk away.

If you find that type of behavior humorous you could laugh and say "are you serious? Do you not have any social skills at all?" then walk away, but the laugh must be real and not contrived.

You could be sincere and say "I'm sorry...I'm sorry your self-esteen is so low. I hope you have a better day tomorrow." Then walk away.

One of my favorates...say"Oh, you're one of THOSE." Then walk away.

One of these should fit your personality, use what flows best from you. Just remember that a girl like that you definitely do not what in your life.


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give a teasing response while remaining a positive attitude ("you have a way with words"), turn your back to them, proceed talking over your shoulder with a new thread, something situational.


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Either your approach, energy, or opener was bad. There was an episode on The Pick Up Artist Season 2 where this guy walked in the club with too high energy and was being blown off even before he could transition... so I'd say watch your energy level. The best way to do it is calm cool and collective, always works for me. But if you had good approach and opening, then you probably encountered PMS.

I once encountered PMS. Some PUAs would walk away and give up, but me I never take no for an answer so this is how I handled it...

I looked at her friends and said "Ohh, so shes the bad one in the group huh? (with a smile)", she flipped like a switch and started laughing. I take NO's as a shit tests, not a fail.

I get no's every from time to time but I never give up, I always say something like, "Ok hold on, we got off a rocky end so lets start over" then I would say, "I cannot leave this place without getting your contacts so lets make a deal" then I administer a game that I will definitely win in, like naming all 5 of the oceans, a stupid game but its worked for me in the past.

I'm a persistent guy so I never take no for an answer but every one is different.


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If some girl is bitchy towards you, you have the full right to return her the favour. I see it as follows. She tells you to fuck off. If you just go away, for sure you lost value in her eyes and those of her friends. A real Alpha male should react in a way that makes her lose her value and increase your value. At least that is what I think. If I would see a girl telling a guy to fuck off and the guy could insult her back in a creative but cool way, my respect for him would grow infinitely.

I never experienced this but I would probably just ignore her comment and say something like: "Did you eat garlic for dinner today ? I have to leave now because your breath is killing me.".


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When it happens deal with it.

But think why did it happen? What went wrong with your approach, Body-Language/Posture/Weak eye contact/Dress/physique/hair/ethnicty/height/age it might just be her.


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Girls with attitudes or with a mean look I just say

Me: Look how cute she looks!
You know what with that attitude we should just put you in timeout!

Just go in that corner over there and Ill get you some crayons and a coloring book (give off a laugh)( I dont know where I got this from but props to whoever or whatever). I did this to a high maintenance girl then after she was nice to me and ask me to fuck her the next day because I wasnt taking her shit. Like everyone is saying treat her like your little niece or sister.

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Personally I would do one of two things.

1. Just laugh in her face :lol: . As others have said, you have to mean it - total conviction, no fear. In the film Gladitor (2000) both Richard Harris and Russel Crowe say "Death smiles at us all. All a man can do is smile back." This is the attitude you must have towards such a reaction once its happened. Also as Iain M Banks wrote in Use of Weapons (page 147) "Laugh, that was the only answer, the only reply that couldn't be bettered or itself laughed down; the lowest of the low of common denominators". About a year ago a girl called me specky because I got served at the bar before her. I just laughed in her face. 20 minutes or so later she was dancing next to me and let me put my hands all over her. 8) She was really hot! Sadly didn't go anywhere after that because I didn't know any better then but it does illustrate the power of the laugh.

2. Turn and look behind you, turn back and say to her friends she must think I'm someone else. Cocky funny. If you get a laugh out of her friends it will make her feel stupid. Harder to pull off but with good posture I think it might work. :twisted:


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to be honest if a girl shouts you down like that she's probably a bitch anyway. Either that or you are approaching in a way that she don't appreciate.

the other day a girl said that she appreciated the effort but couldn't for whatever reason. There's no harm in being courteous and its all just a game.

never tried this but maybe you could say

" No... You fuck off " with an incredulous look - as if she had approached you , or you had been there in the first place. Trying to look genuinely flabbergasted " How dare you... can't you see I am having a quiet drink and don't want to be bothered? "

At this point - read their response - if it disarmed them ... take a seat - if not you have a least gained a bit of face for the walk of shame ( she will probably regret it and eye you up as you walk off!)

G luck everyone


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I would say......

"...Ya my friend said you looked like a bitch but I bet him you weren't. Now I'm out $20 bucks, but at least I know he knows his shit".


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8) :lol: IF THAT EVER HAPPENED TO ME, I WOULD LAUGH MY ASS OFF, AND SAY NEXT!! :lol: 8)


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I think it's funny. Why would you come to a nightclub dressed like a slut, and be mad or angered when men approach you? Thats like me wearing a police uniform and yelling at people who ask me for help. "Ohh so just cause i'm dressed like this you think i'm a policeman?". hahahahaha
David Chappelle's sketch is awsome.

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She is obviously a dick do you want her? so just "have a nice evening ladies" and walk off laughing at how hilarious the whole thing is

I have only seen this response when twice, once my mate approached from behind at the abr and didn't notice she was in tears after splitting with her bf or some crap lol

second was 3 uptight girls in the VIP area of a club I opened and they were just dicks, proved it quickly I figured they aren't the type of girl I want so said enjoy your night ladies and left


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Hey everybody, I'm new to the MPUAF and love the different perspectives that you guys have given me.

In my experience, just because you get blown off doesn't mean that there was something wrong with your game. Might just have caught them at a bad time; might be some sort of expectation from a group of friends she is in.

In that situation, I would try to reinforce my status as AMOG by saying something playful but cutting, letting them know that their attitude won't get me down and stop me from talking to others. Definitely give them a "next please" sort of vibe, something that tells them that you think they aren't good enough for you anyway. And a big smile is a must!

This quote is great, might have to use it myself!
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I would say......

"...Ya my friend said you looked like a bitch but I bet him you weren't. Now I'm out $20 bucks, but at least I know he knows his shit".


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