Ever noticed how girls like the bad ones? That is partially true. Does that mean that we should be bad? Partially.

There is an important distinction between the bad boy, the bad guy and the bad person.

The BAD BOY:

This character plays by his own rules. He gets into discussions with superiors. He disregards rules. He cares about himself above all but also protects his bad boy bros and a few other people. He drinks, gives in to lust, lives fast dies young. He has an attitude but may still be a good guy. He may still have his own moral code.

The BAD GUY:

This guy is darker than the bad boy. This guy isnt just misbehaving, he gets himself and others into trouble. In some ways he has let his lusts take over and isnt in control anymore. He might gamble, drink or use other drugs, who knows. He might have been in prison. He might be violent. He might unintentionally hurt the ones he loves because he is not only just thinking about himself, he is a real egoist. Untrustworthy.

The BAD PERSON:

This is someone you would not wanna be with. This is a guy who can intentionally hurt you to make himself feel better. Take advantage of you to make a profit. This could be financial, emotional (remember the post about emotional vampires?) or social status. He could brag about his erotic adventures in front of a girl who is deeply in love with him just to sound cool, no care about the girls feelings. This guy is a real asshole.


So why do I tell you this?
All of the three may be attractive to girls, at leats initially. They are difficult to tell apart at a glance.
Two of the three are acceptable in a social circle, will have friends and girls might still hang out with them.
One of the three has a future in a relationship. Yes, the bad boy. The other two may very well fail in the trust and comfort parts. Not just talking pickup here but in any relations.

I am not saying this so that you can watch out for those guys. I am telling you to not become the two latter types. Be the bad boy but not the bad guy or person. It is easy to set your goals in the wrong place when aiming for a bad guy persona. And as your PU skills increase you get more power.

As Spidermans uncle Ben would say: With great power comes great responsibility.

Myself, Im a bad boy... Borderline bad guy sometimes but working on it. If I ever get close to being a bad person... I quit.

Hope this can help some of you guys.

Ezo

BUT IM A BAD MAN

lulz

Women like edgy but not assholes and yar I agree it is a slippery path. I occasionally see how deep the rabbit hole goes but yar I wouldn't advise it unless you are sure of where you started

i am a bad boy 100%.....arrogant as hell sometimes...i had to stay away from people today as i just got this mood that i do once in a while when i throw everything into peoples face.....and lets face it, people do not like honestly....but then again, the girls i hurt this morning were back to me at night