ok i met this girl at a supermarket where i used to go buy my lunch. i used to make her laugh whenever i saw her, im pretty sure she was into me because of her smile and her mannerisms, they just indicated she was keen. i only used to see her for a few minutes at a time. After a week (20 minutes collectively) i shook her hand and said that we should go out. she seemed really keen and i took her number.

now its been a week and we have gradually been texting each other more and more. going from her replying to 2 texts to having conversations via text at midnight when she has work the next day. im pretty sure shes interested because shes happy to stay up late texting me now and because she responds quite suggestively, always with lol's. its just there.

she has invited me out clubbing with her friends a few times but i decline and tell her i want to go out, just us two.

the only thing i cant work out is she never answear's her phone when i call?

shes very happy to text and im picking up ioi's but i want to speak to her now.

could she just be shy? she is only 18 (im 20) maybe she hasnt done this before?

if this is the case then im guessing my next step is to build comfort and trust?

any help or experience guys and im very thankful.

hm, well sometimes people just dont like talking on the phone
what have you said when u declined her invitation to hang?
i think you should go clubbing with them, cuz u gotta get the acceptance from her friends, and then its just easy from there.

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Hi thanks for the reply.
I said that id love to go but wouldnt know anybody and id rather just me and her go out sometime.

We had non solid plans for tomorrow. I told her I was going to take her to see a band (kept the band and location a secret to try build trust) after which was going to bounce to a quiet bar for more.

I text her about 2 hours ago with a simple, how r u? And haven't got a reply. This is pissing me off a little now.

Would I be right to scrap this one?

Thats good you didn't go out with that girl and her friends never play by a girls rules.

Her friends for whatever reason be it jealously, don't like the way you dress, think you're not on their level they will put you under the microscope feed her negative opinions of you and ultimately affect her opinion of you not to your benefit. Plus she's not going to leave her friends to go home with you. Her friends do not care nor do they want you getting laid. Therefore its pointless to put on a dancing monkey act all night to try to impress them.

Only time you should ever go out too meet a girls friends is after you've sexed her first.

send her one last text to meet up one night during the week day if she' makes some excuse. Its time to stop wasting your time and energy

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if you dont feel right with her, go ahead and scrap her, theres billions of other girls in the world. dont get used to scrapping them all the time tho. sometimes u gotta jsut brush off bad signals. i will text a girl and not get something back, and then the next day, she will text me. so it happens from time to time with anyone. maybe she was busy and couldnt reply and would do it later and just forgot about it.

and no offense to Reo but im going to have to disagree. because i do very well in disarming obsticles. i do agree with you that its better to do those things after sex with her. but i still have good enough game to where meeting her friends and getting their approval is like breathing to me. you just got to be fun and make them laugh. and as long as they have a good time. then your target will know that you are perfect.

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then you agree good man....

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