but also you have to win the group over, and if your cold and distant to them your not going to be able to do that. a pua befriends the whole group, and even tho he may ignore the target at first, he does somthing different to any other guy in the club, he gets to know her as a person.
im not speaking from experience tbf this is personal opinion after reading my theory, ive been reading up around 2 months on the game and in those two months i only did a few approaches. the reason i joined this forum was because i made the mistake of taking the whole being uninterested thing too seriously, also i got negging wrong (bad tiimes lol) so i decided to give myself a kind of refresher course to correct any mistakes i was making as i didnt wanna hurt ppls feelins and be somone i didnt wanna be. (gna start sargin again soon after i get over a few stickys)
as for not calling the girl back and breaking her heart. i think that doesnt depend of the pua, but the person. an AFC may very well do all these things (ingnorin every1 execpt the target and only focusing on her fr what she looks like) cuz n afc's attention is on looks only, if he never calls back ther may be alot more pain for the girl involved as she knows she was used for her looks only. but the pua liked her for who she was. and who knows when out in the feidl you may very well meet the type of person you want to be with.
i think ppl stereotype the sort of person a pua is, but the fact is all of the mater puas and the gurus are completly ther own person, they act so differently they just stick to a similar method of doing things. i think to be successful at this you still have to be you (personaly i wouldnt find satisfaction if i could only get hot girls by acting like someone completly different from who i am) attraction is a mutual thing, you like them for who they are, they like you, for you, not someone your pretending to be, your still youself just with a strong identity and sticking to a method.
