Hey everyone.

As a guy who's been raised to be polite and avoid being rude to people, I'm not getting the hang of negging too quickly and it occurred to me that I'd be more comfortable starting out using IODs instead. I've also thought a comfortable way for me to neg would be to jokingly accuse her of having given a DLV (or is that what negging is?). I ran a search for IODs and didn't come up with much. What're some IODs I can use on women? Is there a good list somewhere? What about DLVs I can accuse her of? Thanks guys.

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Omeo

You do not, I repeat do not have to neg. Negging is optional, it was suggested to be used to "lower someones status/value to yours" that implys that you need to think that she is better then you... which is the wrong mindset to have in the beginning. I would recommend Push/Pull and the "push" can be the IOD type thing that you are looking for. I will give you an example of a push pull I used on a girl I was dancing with at a party who was giving me a lot of IoI's to begin with.

While dancing she whispers in my ear
BrunetteHB8: So what type of girls are you going for?
ME: (points to random girl at the party walking by)

This is a) Halarious, I have a lot of personal enjoyment pulling shit like this.
b) its a nice little push because it disqualifies her
c) it generally serves the purpose of a neg but it wont get you the cold shoulder if you do it wrong and she might realize you are doing it jokingly and get some brownie points.

so after this you will do a pull and say something along the lines of, im just joking your awesome etc... hope this helps.