I printed this out and taped it on my wall.

You go out at LEAST 3 nights a week, and NO MORE than 5 nights a week.

You approach 5 girls per night, open, then hang in there and escalate in whatever way you can until you get blown out.

After your 5 are done you can do more if you want to, if you're in state or if you're just feeling keen.

But you ABSOLUTELY have to approach 5 chicks. And yes, a group of 5 girls still just counts as ONE approach.

You do 5 approaches a night.

Unless you pull, obviously.

Each approach you play TO THE WIRE. You do not do 'trial approaches.' You play that shit out until you get blown out.

You do not number close.

Yes, you heard me. You cannot fuck a phone number, so you don't fucking take them until AFTER you've fucked a girl.

You do not have a wingman.

Yes, you heard me. You tell yourself it's for backup, but really 90% of the time that 'backup' is just something for your ego to hide behind.

Be merciless with your ego.

Take the pain.

Take it all.

Don't bitch, don't whine, don't complain. Be a fucking man. Take it.

You approach scary sets, impossible sets, easy sets and anything else that looks like it has a vagina.

You get industrial about this. This is not self-help.

This is self-destruction.

You do this for two months.

Then you take a fortnight off.

Then you do it for two months.

Then you take a fortnight off.

You continue this process.

If you cannot do this because of money concerns, drink water when you're out, go to bars with no cover charge and do it anyway.

Or kill someone and steal their wallet.

If you cannot do it because you are scared, face your fear and face it down.

Keep your method SIMPLE and YOURS.

You do not want to be THINKING. Steer clear of 'tactics' based game as you would steer clear of fucking a leper.


Success is nothing more than pressure over time, so be relentless.

Never accept your excuses.

Push yourself way, WAY beyond your pain threshold.

Be savage with your training, and you will see extreme improvement.

And remember - if you give up on this you are resigning yourself to a life of mediocrity.

Which, to any right thinking man, is way, way worse than death.

Now get up.

Get up now.

Turn your fucking computer off and get up.

Get on your feet. Get out that door.

Whatever time of day or night it is, you get up. Now.

*hands you a rifle*

Get on your feet, soldier.

Don't you know there's a war on?
To obtain something of equal value must be lost . . .

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I'm addicted to facing my fears.

Wow.......and what happens if we dont do it? >_>

Jokes aside though I would if I cared enough to socialize.

Oh the irony, as i am in iraq.. lol
But when i get back i'ma try that, it sounds like it will work and a challenge is always good. It sounds like its a good thing

good shit man
i think ima print that out and put it on my wall

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just have fun and you will never be dissapointed

warning: this shit will kick you so hard in the balls you will not remember who you used to be.





IT'S PURE GOLD.


anyone who's not up to this is A CHODE

Wow, you're really mature. Ever consider that maybe some people are just NOT AS FUCKING SOCIAL as others? Doesn't make them a "chode", ya closedminded fuck.

I couldnt disagree more.

This is exactly the kind of stuff that the community does not need.

This is why we have a community thats mostly full of people who are lieing to themselves about everything. Trying to fill the emotional holes in your life by acting like your in some kind of cult waging some sort of war. THIS IS NOT A FUCKING WAR. It's women and its exponentially easier then 99% of you think it is.

The problem is that people in the community in their war like quest, never develop any social intuition... they see things, they hear things, but they can't feel things... Shit like this turns people into such fucking robots that they lose touch with what makes them human, and they can't even see the lack of fullfillment in their very leaders eyes.

So sleeping with a different girl every night you go out is the goal here obviously, since pretty much anyone can land 20%... I ask you this... why? Why I different girl every night? You think that will make you happy? It won't I've been there, thats not how happiness works. Find out why on an emotional level, deep inside, you feel the need to do this... and once you know why pursue that need specifically. Go to the source and quite hiding from who you are.

This isn't facing your fears, approaching a difficult set... that fear is nothing. Looking into the mirror of your soul and facing the things that have made you who you are, attacking the the negative parts of the very essence of your core... now theres fear. If you want to be a man and fight a war, start where it all begins and ends in your own mind.

Allow me to explain my point of view.


Action will lead to faster progress than pondering over yourself while looking in a mirror. we are here for progress right? What you need to keep in mind is taking right action, it's 100% common sense. You shouldn't do stuff because some guy online told you to, but because you want to progress yourself.
I'm a huge fan of living life live leaning into your fears.
You are not going to enforce your image by being a keyboard jockey reading about innergame all day. Those thoughts need reference experience and guess where you are gonna get those. Out in the field.



@Corey, "not being social as others" is just an excuse. And you really shouldn't compare yourself with others.

Its not an excuse. I'm one of those that just isn't that social of a person. I think the term for that is "introvert".
Not that I was comparing myself to anyone else, but why shouldn't you?

I used to be introvert aswell, But that's still not a reason not to go out and socialize with other people.

You shouldn't compare yourself with others because they've been raised in a total different situation as you. It's useless

"good" actions lead to progress... this is blind stupidity. Happiness will bring women, women do not always bring happiness.

I'd rather be happy then pretend to be in fight club.

And honestly show me someone who does this who closes better then 50% consistently and over the long run... because I've never seen that in the community from this sort of mindset... and honestly 50% among a group of naturals would warrant taking your buddy aside and helping him out because he's way off his game.

This is how you make small gains... and I say big gains first small gains second.

I'd rather be out there than sitting at home being happy in my own little comfort zone.



-Jav



p.s.

Jlaix.

Then by all means continue blindly following the blind. and when did I ever say to sit at home? I say do things smarter, you say I dont want to do nothing! It makes no sense.

Work smarter not harder... this concept makes things way harder then it have to be. It doesnt much matter people like to hail their first impression as gospel. Reminds me of the old days when I was told I had to do the MM thing and approach 4 girls an hour 4 hours a night 4 nights a week... 64 women a week, you were supposed to # close them and get day 2's and the theory was if you do that you'll get 1-2 numbers a night and then of those 5-10 numbers get 2-3 day 2's and close 1 of them. I tried this for 2 weeks and had over 100 #'s, what the fuck are you supposed to do with that? It's just dumb.

Open your mind a little and you'll realize that you don't have to be a robot. It's like telling a total AFC that theres a better way, and they just say no theres not... but you know theres another "level" that they could reach in their life if they would open there mind... same thing in the PUA community.

As the origional passage said... this is not self improvement, its self destruction. I fully agree that this is exactly whats being proposed here, self destruction.

So by all means go ahead and destroy yourselves, I'm more of an improvement guy personally

True but I'm content with not really socializing other than at work...or when I feel like it.

Clearly a lot of you missed the point of this.

It's not a war with women.

It's a war with yourself. Your ego. And both of you need to get it checked from all this anger in the posts.

The death of your ego and the rebirth of your real self.

The idea was to motivate yourself everyday to remove your ego constructs.

Not to wage war on women. If anyone is angry towards women then you should consider therapy.

The only enemy in our lives is ourself. And our mind is our own prison. And your ego controls it all.

Most people suffer with happiness because of their ego.

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