| There is a clear distinction between a player and a lady’s man, however most men, especially “newbies” use the two labels interchangeably even when they are, in fact quite different.
A player is someone we do not want to aspire to become or act like, but a “lady’s man” is. Let me tell you why…
A player is someone who uses superficial tactics to attract a woman for the “here and now” who is also just looking to fulfill her immediate sexual needs. He perceives women as targets and attempts to sleep with as many as possible to add them to the notches on his belt thinking that he’s got game. However the sad fact is that he is easy manipulated into a superficial display and dance to sexually please a woman, strictly due to her physical beauty. This is definitely a weakness on his behalf. After that he has no value to her. He is simply used for sex and then trashed the day after by the opposite sex
Now do you call this Game?
Alot of women are sexually attracted to a player BUT that is only “for the moment” and for good times because he doesn’t impose any stress or pressure on them to be in a relationship or for any emotional attachment.. A woman gets her fill from him and then trashes him for the next “quick fix provider” the next time she is in need of sex. This is “frat boy game and not true seduction” . Therefore , he is not someone to envy or role model as someone who has GAME., unless you want to act like a “service station” for a lot of women, yet not implant any impression in their minds nor seduce them for the long term
So we must look for another role model…..who is …The lady’s man!
A lady’s man, on the other hand is a man who not only can turn on a woman’s sexual attraction circuitry for the “here and now”, but also for the long-term. He is a man who truly “F#$&% a woman’s mind and seduces it”. As a result, she sees him as a permanent fixture in her life and consequently excludes all other partnership possibilities. The reason his effect on a woman is so profound, unlike the childish player is because he “naturally loves women”. He is genuine and raw. He is not afraid to connect with people and hence with the opposite sex and this causes women to truly open up their deepest treasure chest of desire and emotion to him.
He is not only suave and charismatic but is fascinating, intriguing and captivating. He has a real interest in people, places, culture and likes to add “Value” to people’s lives leaving them breathless when he enters and exits the scene. This makes the women in at the scene crave for him like Juliet did for Romeo.
Furthermore, recall that although women do love sex, they also don’t want to be considered sluts and so putting on a “I’m a pimp or player” hat will produce the result that is the antithesis of what you really want. You will get blown out before a woman even gives you a chance to get to know her for the long-term. You may be exciting her for the moment, but her excitement will die and her focus will shift to another when you leave the scene or when she gets back into her normal, logical character. Once she does, she will realize that you were just a “sexual vice” for her and nothing more. Also, If you do land some tail, it will usually be frolicking bar sluts or women who are just on the prowl to feed their frenzy for the moment, but you will never attract and seduce women of exceptional standards who need and want more than that to make an impression on them.
Look, any Tom, Dick and Harry can get a woman who is just looking for meat to have sex with him-PLAIN AND SIMPLE! He simply needs to present a cheap offer for sex, drugs and rock n roll, but it takes a true lady’s man to make a truly high quality woman want him and yearn for him, for the long-term, anywhere and anytime.
So if you want to model someone to develop your “GAME” from, then just remember that it takes far more game to make a woman feel, not just sexual attraction for you but also an emotional bond with you, so that she wants to see you over and over again and make her pleasures exclusive to you. Therefore it is far more worthwhile to play the lady’s man deck, as it produces results that are the best for both you and the woman.
McMaax
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