I knew abt game since 2008 .but back then i didnt really think that this work .

So abt my life before PUA > I was friends with most people in my school. But except like 5 girls i wasnt friendly with any of the other girls. Not because i didnt have any social value or anything but i was just didnt know wat to talk with them. Once even a girl said she liked me through her friend and after talking to her for like a min, i was in the friends zone lol

So naturally i had the worst oneitis for a girl in my skl. I used to text her and i would talk to her every opportunity i get. I used to wait till she comes out of lesson, so that i can talk to her lol thinking abt it now makes me want to go back in time and kick myself . Once we went shopping and she was buying her bra and i was helping her with colour. In my mind i am thinking game is so on. But like 2 days later, she changed her relationship status into " in a relationship with a dickhead". So basically i was like the gay guy helping her with shopping.

That day i decided to make this a mission. To sort out this part of my life...


So now>> My wingman is teaching me a lot. He is a natural and he is a walking game encyclopedia. So my game is imprpving a lot. We both got our own wingwoman as well which is great. And we are trying entourage game these days.
But my friends dont like me hanging with my wings when i am in a club. They know PUA but they think its a joke. They used to call my wing mystery when they first met him as a joke.

Body language and confidence with women has improved a lot. And it feels natural to start a convo with a random HB these days. But there is still a lot i need to learn

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I don't conquer, I submit.
Giacomo Casanova

I've been studying a lot of material lately and of course I go out all the time but within the past 2 weeks has seriously been the most successful I can remember in a long time. I don't feel like I'm doing anything different now than I ever have though. I know a few more things but I'm not sure what the big deal breaker has been.

-2 weeks ago I hooked up with this girl who I had met at a party a few months ago (see lr's for more details)

-last weekend at a party got 2 number closes and slept with both that night at the same house at different times.

-wed another #close just have to get into comfort with her for fclose

-last night another girl I'd met at a party about 3 weeks ago but I hadn't talked to in a while msg's me finding out what i'm doing blah,blah end up spending the night there watching a movie we only made out

the last 2 should just be a matter of getting in my 7-10 hrs of comfort and then done deal.


Your Boy,
ChrisLove

I found the game at a summer camp one year, before my freshman year. I only read it cause a counselor showed it to us and read us an excerpt and it was real funny. So when I went home I bought it. I read it and put it down for a year. then I brought it up in convo to one of my bff's. we started working together. I went from the dude who wasn't getting nothing, well I dont get much now. But i know why, and im working on that, i am expanding my inner circle. I have become a more confident person and I am working on myself till i become the new and improved me fully.

I first started getting into the community back in October. After 18 years of less than no success with women, it came to the breaking point on the bus on the way to class, sitting across from an HB9 (minimum) and realizing that, in my wildest dreams, I had no idea what to say to her, and no chance in hell of ever getting a woman like that. That was all it took. I went to the campus bookstore and bought "The Game."

Read it overnight, and a week later, number closed 2 hb's at a Halloween party. This was huge for me, as I'd never even gotten a legit number before. started moving on to getting multiple dates (at one point was seeing 5 women at a time) by the time my 19th birthday came along in February. Lost my V-Card on a Day 2 with a girl I wound up seriously dating for almost 4 months. Now single again, but seeing 2 girls casually. A third I've been working on thru msn/txt and will be meeting later this week.

My confidence in general has never been higher for the most part. I've always been a big, somewhat intimidating guy, but never was able to back that up with confidence. Now, I'm a RAFC with the look of an AMOG, and hopefully well on my way to being at least a competent PUA.

haha i wish my uni campus have something like that

my story here, i was always the guy who suck with woman. the very first time i know about the community is when i was still playing dating sims on newgrounds.com, i come over with a flash game called "The Game" but that time i was kind of young so didnt really get in touch with it. Half a year back, i found the community, i was searching for stuff in the internet just randomly came across with this, so i keep on searching and found this site and becomeaplayer.com, i eventually did my first ever approach 2 months later but it was a crash and burn to hell alive, i dont even want to tell you what stupid cheesy needy opener i used LOL. after that i just keep using PUA skill whenever i have the chance (but i still didnt approach much in street), and i got quite some improvement in my game. not until after i went to australia to study, i finally got the guts to talk to girls in uni and got massive improvement.

what i gain from this is i have my confidence level up, i start to really like myself, i learn how to face my fear, and i become a way more sociable guy. The best part is, after you know you have choice in woman, you start to see what you really want in life since getting woman is not a problem anymore, that feels so good.

I was never really great with girls. In fact I only had 3 girlfriends, and they were in 8th grade, and into freshmen year in high school. After that I got all shy and stuff. A Year ago I started to make an effort at ending my shyness. I got that nailed! but I still wasn't any good with girls. (I'm 20 at this point, last girlfriend was at 15)

Then A co worker brought in "The Game" he swears by it, but wouldn't let me borrow it because he was still reading it, and had another friend in line. I didn't want to buy it because I would be too embarrassed.

One day in February (a few days after V-Day) I came to my friends asking them for help, but they gave me stupid answers, and laughed. (for some reason I thought that seeing 3 approaches would help me) One night in my night of youtubeing, I started searching stuff like "How to get a girlfriend" stuff like that. I found dumb stuff, until I stumbled on a pua doing approaches. I slowly tried some of the stuff, but didn't study too hard. I didn't get much results, but I did start approaching girls ( by that I mean like 2 a month) Then last month my other friend let me borrow "The Game" I'm almost done with it. then I signed up for this forum last Saturday. I still have a long way to go. I still have AA to deal with.

I never had troubles getting women, in fact I had quite a few in my day. The problem was that day had passed, and with it came a new dawn. One in which old friends were no more, or were gone, and contacts soured and broke. I was left to my own device.
I sat about for a couple years being really an obi-wan-kanobi (a hermit). One day, an old friend took me out with him. And this was the first time I went to a "club", and we got drunk AFC style, but as we did I watched. I seen PUAs in action, and thought those lucky bastards. But then I thought "that should/could be me".
I knew I had some game, although I found out how little after I started to study PUA. I needed to get rid of AA, develop social proof, and learn how to open and bridge that into interesting routines/convos. So I set out to do it. And I did.
Now just this month i've had over 8 number closes, got sexual-relations with 2 of those 8, and am still seeing 2 of them. And it is only the 11th of this month.
Thanks to everyone here for being a band of brothers.

I've come along way, however I have found that I have only made real genuine progress in my life within the last 3 months or so, since I have stopped reading this forum.

The PUA 'community' and the mystery method fucked me up socially and with women for the first few months I read into both of them. Mystery can go fuck himself for all I care because he ruined my confidence in many ways with his techniques so I am so so so glad I stopped trying to use MM as it just turns you into a robot with fuck all personality Imo.

I started the game having alot of female friends, some of which desired me but I was too stupid too notice and too much of a coward to pull the trigger as I didn't have any sexual confidence. When I started learning 'game' I lost most of these females in my life and they lost interest in me because I tried too hard with them and wasn't my normal funny and charming self, I thought I was learning a super successful secret system that would guarantee me a more successful sex life but it fucked me over completely.

Then I found 2 instructors who I swear by, AFC adam and Sinn, both of whom taught me that pick-up is supposed to be fun! which is why I was failing so badly, I didn't see it as fun, I just held onto it like it was the most important thing in my life. AFC adam and Sinn showed me how many of the techniques that you learn are bullshit and turn you into a social retard, and taught me in a simple way how to be more comfortable socially and a good mindset to acquire, although I didn't try to remember every single thing they taught because it was too much for my mind to handle.

After not visiting this forum often if at all, and by chucking away the mystery method and 'the game' and actually going out instead of reading so much, I actually learnt more than ever instead of being a "keyboard jockey"

So it's almost as if I have gone full circle to where I was before, but with more confidence on every level, and appreciating my life more

Liquid_Steel im in your shoes right now read some books, watched some videos.. Still nowhere

Korruptx i think youre getting me off the mystery method.. You like many more are saying that it is real old and real sh8t and should only be used for getting you into the game.. But according to you its no good at all

Well it depends really mate, if your just getting started it still helps to use certain parts of it like negging, time constraints and false disqualification, but as for peacocking and all the rest of it, it just didn't suit my personality or style. If you really enjoy using MM then stick with it, but for me personally I just couldn't stand it, its all personal preference really.

i can relate alot to that.

especially being depressed and suicidal. but i'm well and truly over it and i just want to use this pick up to change myself from an average nobody with better than average looks who cant get women to not just a person who can attract women but also one who is a grown man, like i feel i need to become a real man right now. i'm ready and its the first time i've felt this and this whole pick up world is my key to a door that was previously locked tight.

i need to get my friends involved, i'm gonna buy 'the game' and share it around cos so far everyone thinks its one big joke and dont take it serious at all.

i'm definitely in your shoes right now ace&face

As a result of me finding the community my inner game ( confidence ) has much improved, just gotta focus on my outter game now lol which i cant say the same 4