I have heard from more than one successful speed seducer that they have a lot of angry guys coming after them and telling them to stay away from a girl. I find this amusing and I'm looking forward to it happening to me. I guess I better buy some weapons.

I would like to hear from you guys any stories about this happening to you.
I want to know who came after you, i.e. whether they were a relative, friend, or boyfriend of the girl. And I'd like to know what they told you.

Can't say its ever happened to me, if you manage expectations etc correctly it shouldn't ever happen. I have been introduced by a girl to her ex that I stole her from (we both didn't think to mention who I was lol).

Dude, weapons are not cool.

I got the occasional "I'm going to bust your fucking head in with a brick if you're gonna talk to her again." But other than that I never had any really trouble.

I've only really done anything about this kind of situation once back in High School... I wasnt so good at controlling the emotions that go with all the testosterone then lol. An X of the girl I was dating at the time calls me at like 2am during the week like a Tuesday or something, blocked phone number says to me:
Him: "You better stop talking to her or something bad is going to happen to you."
Me: "Is that so?"
Him: "Yep you better back off or your gunna get hurt real bad."
Me: "So you want this to get physical?"
Him: "Damn right, I'm gunna get you when you least expect it."
Me: "Do what you gotta do man."
Him: "I know who you are and you don't know who I am man, you better watch out."
Me: "Thats where your wrong, have a good night"
and I hung up the phone.

Kid worked at a certain local fastfood restaurant and his manager was one of my buddies older brothers. I got him to clear the front area near the cash registers for me close to close and to put the guy on drive thru. So obviously pulled the guy out the drive thru window and roughed him up a bit then left him there. Hopefully he learned not to call people in such a rude fashion anymore.

But in all honesty as I've gotten older, just being genuinely alpha male resolves most issues... I rarely have people get mad at me, and most guys who get like that are very weak and insecure and usually just some strong eye contact along with something like "I really don't apreaciate your tone right now, you should probably re-think it" usually gets the point across and they tend to realize they are fucking with the wrong guy.

agreed when you are alpha you can just be like " really? you honestly are gonna pull this over some girl? go for it princess" or just a "really?" and look at them like it's a 5 year old girl starting a fight with you. kinda stops most in their tracks

If you're gaming the right way, it shouldn't happen. Also weapons are a big no-no. The difference between a fist fight between two guys and a guy fighting with a weapon is huge as far as legal consequences.

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i disagree with not having weapons, but weapon control is important.. a weapon should not be used in an offensive matter especially in situations over a female but in a defensive matter i wouldn't hesitate.. I am in the army though so maybe i think a little differently then most..

As far as the original post. Myself i have gotten into quite a few fights because of females, the best kicker of the story is that it was never a girl i was going after.. it was always my buddy stealin other dude's girls' but somehow it ended up being my fault and i would end up fighting..

But i don't believe in fighting over a female, especially if it's a female you just met, that's just dumb. You don't know how many guys this guy could have with him, if he has a weapon, anything. Just when you get put into the situation think to yourself is this female really worth potentially risking my life? Unless it's someone like Cameron Diaz, 9 times out of 10 the answer will be no.

eh i think weapons make things worse rather than defend you. but thats prolly cuz ive been shot before.

being a good conversationalist as a PUA, you should learn to deal with other people and how they react. ive always had great convincing skills so when brothers, ex-boyfriends, etc...come up and threaten me. somehow i come up with this extraordinary reason to why they look like an idiot. and they calm down. and i somehow get their acceptance.
u just gota know how to talk and relate to people. i mean isnt that what a lot of us learn in this whole thing.

like a lot of these guys said..its the usual.."why the fuck would you fight me over sum girl..come on kid..i thought we were out of jr high"

its always a nice laugh tho when some1 calls you from a blocked number cuz then u can tease them for being scared about u knowing who they are and all that.

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yeah this has happened a few times for me.. there was this one chick who kept texting me and shit even though i didn't reply because i knew she had a dangerous boyfriend. the boyfriend found out and sent me a text saying he's gonna knife me in the back. he found out when i knocked off work and waited for me. he approached me, told me im about to die, and pulled a knife out. i was able to run in the opposite direction and escape luckily. went to the police the next day and showed them the text and told em what happened but they thought i was talking shit being a 16 year old kid... anyway i haven't heard from the guy since.. i guess he figured he put a big enough scare into me.

there was another time when i fucked a chick at a party who had a boyfriend who was ALSO AT THE SAME PARTY!! geez i wish she had told me... the guy bottled me on the back of the head and stomped me until my mates pulled him away. still got scars on my head from that shit

ive learnt to be pretty careful now. and i also taught myself to fight

..........and this is why I respect relationships and dont bother with a girl thats in one......I'm also the highly tempered sort and don't need the trouble.

Avoiding girls in relationships will make little difference they don't want the guy to find out either. It is usually psycho ex-bf's that will bitch and moan at you

lmao well yes a few....
first was my sophomore year i had made some friends through a connection i had with the rowing team and i ended up almost dating my good friend's "best friend"'s ex girlfriend....got that?
well the best friend asked the ex back out on his birthday with confidence but she told him no cause she was interested in me, he had a problem with it and drove me home to find out the situation we had kept from him. this guy easily had me by 60lbs.
that never worked after that.
and on top of that the "best friend" told my good friend that i had feelings for his girlfriend when i didnt....then in turn making the good friend not my good friend any more.
this past year junior year, same time setting as the previous year....my ex friend and his girlfriend broke up and we ended up getting a thing.

let me back up....the ex good friend is a 210lb muscular thick chinese guy who had trained in fighting his whole life and even trained when he lived in indonesia....no lie no bullshit no nothing.....

well me and the girl ended up having sex twice before he finally caught me off guard at a party in MY neighborhood....blind sited me and made it look pretty good in his favor that night.

not much was between that girl and i afterwards.

i carry a can of mace with me... Its less then lethal and you cant get in busted for useing it

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I always try to instill the wise words of Dr. Dre:

"If it's your bitch in my shit, it's your bitch you check."

lol.

Guys who fight over girls are low-status retards.

Solution: only go for girls who have class and integrity; one good reason for this is that it's unlikely a classy, cool, emotionally-balanced girl will be associated with a low-status thuggish dipshit who'll want to stab you.

And don't fuck girls who you know are in a relationship.

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