I was sitting next to this girl in this seminar and i was mucking around with my other friend, and i said something. She suddenly turns to me and says 'don't be a douche' in a full serious tone

I just looked at her and said 'pen**' I said it in a normal tone of voice and then continued talking to my friend. (i have no idea why i said it...)

Well i was playing around with my phone later and she commented on how good it looked. She took it and then entered her number in.

Is she interested?

Because she did say the 'don't be a douche' in a serious tone, and like later i called her a pen** again and she was like 'don't you ever call me that' in really seriously..not angry but yeah.

The above seems to be one of the most popular questions here. Most writers will write up the situation like noeldeah here (not picking on you. . . just using you as an example)

"She stretched her neck, then I put my hand in my pocket. Then she turned around and then I did the hokie pokie. She laughed, I laughed. She picked her nose but flicked it left instead of right . . . I pretended to pick my ear . . . the left one with my right pinkie of course . . ."

Calling all newbies . . .

The question IS NOT "Is she interested in you."

The question is, "ARE YOU INTERESTED IN HER?"

If so, then forget everything else and begin gaming her. The game is what gets an "uninterested girl" to fall for you and an "interested girl" to drop to her knees and suck and swallow.

All this analyzing of "She did this and I did that," is a waste of your brain power. Thinking about that crap over and over again does NOTHING for you. This what the village idiot does in other aspects of life right? Instead of thinking of his goals and creating a strategy to achieve it, he'll waste his whole day away thinking about crazy fantasies in his head.

Become the achiever! Here's an example of what you should be thinking about instead of that crap: (This is just an example . . . create your own plans)

The goal: Within 2 weeks, I want to make _____, my girlfriend.

Current situation: I have her number

Plan: Get her to join me on a few fun events and hopefully get her in a 1 on 1 situation where I can escalate her and demonstrate my intentions.

Strategy: Think of 3 fun events and lay it to her 1 at time. If she says "no" to the first one, you go, "Too bad, we'll do it next time." . . . When next time comes around, you tell her how much fun the 1st one was and then invite her to the second one. And on, and on. . .if she negs your 3rd one, you kick her to the curb and do the same thing to a girl who she perceives is HOTTER than her. (But most likely, it will never come to this)

During the "fun event" make sure you have a way to go 1 on 1 and several kiss close options ready.

Hmm. . . I want to write more but you're just about done here. See? Nothing to it.

haha wow that's quite the response! Well no I'm not interested in her, shes pretty good looking but she can't really take a playful comment. But thanks for that, I'll adjust my mindset alittle bit more again!

Awesome...

The question IS NOT "Is she interested in you."

The question is, "ARE YOU INTERESTED IN HER?"


love it... i have to try and get my mind around that... soooo well said.

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So . . . what you're saying is you'd rather have a good looking girl who CAN take a playful comment to suck your cock?

The point is . . . she's probably saying the same thing about you. Instead of all these quasi cerebral games, why not game her and get her sucking on your knob?

Really nothing more to say after this...
Great responce Kas

Come on, she put her number into your phone.

If that's not a statement of interest, then what the fuck is!

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