hey everybody
i've met this really cute girl she asked me to go running with her through the park
( kinda of a first date ) as we are both sport lovers
thing is i can't read this signs good, i see good ones then bad ones then good ones, i am so confused
1. when we sit on a bench she sits a little away from me ( after i saw this i always sit in the middle of bench, it is small and whatever place she chooses it will be closer to me )
2. she points her feet away from me
3. she looks me in the eyes
4. at one moment our feet touched as we were talking ( i've read this as a good sign because she didnt feel ackward touching me )
5. i asked for 3 different times for her hand ( one of them was when i couldnt get up off the bench because of the running ) and she didnt do it
6. i kissed her on the cheek and she didnt flinch
7. i've cut the discussion to see if she starts one again and sometimes she does, sometimes she doesn't
8. we went 2 times running, so she starts to get used to me
9. being in a park, insects and stuff kept falling on me and she started to throw them off of me ( i didnt even see them until she pointed them out )

dunno, can u comment on these signs? what should i do to improve my chances?
ty in advance

well shes giving u IOIs
is the "hangout" thing when u guys go running the only thing u are doing?
u gotta do something that shows u are interested in her, but not too much into her cuz u gotta make her want you first
or else shes gonna get too comfortable and BAM theres the friend zone
invite her over to ur place for a movie night or to go out drinkin with ur friends or do something
working out is never really a fun place to game cuz i am tired as hell after im done working out
take her out to a movie or dinner or something, take action, but remember, dont pay for a girl u havent had sex with
play around with her, tease her, push pull, make her laugh
never let her be bored..
remember, u are the alpha male, u need to take action or else she probably wont wanna be with you. girls want guys to always do something and make moves

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just have fun and you will never be dissapointed

i thought to myself that i should go 2 times ( i did them already ) at whatever she invites me to, in this case running, prolly because it was more in her field ( she plays basketball )
i've never called her, she called me 2 times

now for the 3rd date i would take her somewhere where i wont sweat that much

thing is i hate the silence, so except for the times i do want to be silence, i cant shut up, i just go on and on with stupid/interesting funny things
i am afraid i am on the highway to the F zone

ps, what about the bad signs, how do i read them? should i just be happy for the good ones?

haha ya i dont know too many girls that likes when a guy sweats except during sex
but think of this, she can go play basketball or run with her buddies any time, if u keep doing that, then ur going to be a buddy
so good idea on a different third date lol

if u can come up with interesting and funny stories, other things will come up and u guys wont be able to end the date

when u find common ground with eachother, there are endless things to talk about, but keep it interesting, i cannot express that enough, cuz i used to keep an interesting convo and one stupid thing was said, and the whole mood shifted

and if she begins to feel for you, and laughs at ur jokes, the one time u say a stupid joke and she still laughs, ur in...

also remember to escalate
slowly hint to sexual things at the right time to arouse her
not necessarily between you two but say some funny sexual story that happened to a friend of yours, or that u read in a book but say it happened to ur friend, haha, just to get that image of arousal in her head
cuz any guy can keep her laughing and interested and what not, but u are the funny guy that she also wants (either in the bed or as her boyfriend, wutever u are looking for)

kino escalation is always best too
when u are teasing her or joking with her and u touch her hip or shoulder for a second and then take it away, she likes ur touch and she realizes ur not just entertainment, ur a candidate
doing these hints in her subconscious that u dont want to be just friends
and that friend zone is kicked away

as for the bad signs, almost brush them off, just take a quick glance in ur head on wut u just did for her to give off a bad sign, think on how u should do it differently, and then keep on going with the convo, stay confident tho, and more good sign will come quickly
once u have her interested u shouldnt get too many bad signs, if u do, punish her with a neg or an akwardness, she will feel uncomfortable, and she will make sure she doesnt do it again

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just have fun and you will never be dissapointed

that is why i am confussed
i am doing the same thing and her signals change
altough...if i stay and think a little, i got better signals when we talked about our dogs stories and things we got in common, but when these run out...what do u talk about? random talk gave me bad signals, even tho she laughs even at my bad jokes ( a very few ) but i think she does it more so i dont feel bad or something...


i said i dont want her to see me sweat anymore

check your PMs

um when i was dealing with this one really shy girl (i was her first everything aka play friend, kiss, etc..) i played it cute with her
i knew she was attracted to me, but since she never had a boyfriend before, she was 19 at the time, and she never had her kiss
she told me she imagined her first kiss to be with an official boyfriend but i kinda ruined that, and did feel bad, but i always come up with good excuses and told her to not be sad it didnt happen the way she wanted but that she should smile because it happened.
but anyways i would say sweet talk lines like that because her personality matched the kind of girl who was shy and loved being sweet talked cuz she never was before so she never took advantage of it like other girls
i always learned to adapt to every girls personality so i know what to use to game them
see this girl liked some AFC things, cuz she was raised so sheltered, that those things made her smile.

so when u work with this girl, if u get bad signs, change it up, cuz only a couple bad things cant make her turn away from you, if it does then thats not the type of girl u wanna be with.

and as for the bad jokes, if she laughs and u think its cuz she doesnt want u to feel bad, then thats a good sign cuz she likes you and doesnt wanna make u feel akward
i honestly think you have her interested and attracted right now. maybe build a little more attraction everytime u meet and stuff. but definately start taking the next step and make her comfortable around you.
do cute funny things when shes with you. (for example: when u are walking with her or something and u walk by a rose bush, stop and say "oh i forgot i got you something." turn around and pick a rose and take off the thorns and smile and hand it to her. if she smiles and laughs. u made her day and that is plus points mucho.) so do little cute things cuz it has come up good with the shy girls in my experience. except the few times when that shy girl is really a sex freak...which suprised the hell outta me haha.

k well be sure to take her out on something just to show some type of interest
play hard to get but not impossible

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thx bro

but now she rejected my invitation
she said she doesnt want to go for a drink right now but she wants to go running with me again

what should i do?

Listen, If I were you, I would stop worrying about iois and signals so much. Assume she wants you, and don't worry about finding proof for it, just trusts that she does. When you are looking for iois, you are too in your head and not in the interaction. Go running with her. Open up your personality a little, don't be afraid she will reject the real you, she won't. That's what she's waiting for, for you to loosen up and have fun with her. Show her you are an attractive fun-loving guy, and she will want to see you more. But right now she's just feeling you out to see what you're like, and if she want's to spend more time with you. So relax and enjoy the experience, and she will enjoy it too.