How do you get over thinking at girls completely out of your league? Like seems she has way more value than you.

I just remember the saying "If a girl is out of your league, you put her there" She is a woman, woman are people, and you are a person. You are even at worst.

The only ones out of my league are ugly ass bitchezz cuz I put them there.

I made this web page for guys like you http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.p ... e%20theory

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Imagine her hanging out in your house, in your bedroom and being too good for you. Imagine her excusing herself in a hurry. Imagine you going to take a leak and discovering she forgot to flush her smelly log. Problem solved.

westside couldnt have put it any better
there is no out of ur league except for the ones u dont want
and if she thinks she is, make her realize she isnt
imagine her as that nerdy girl in high school she used to be, who blossomed in college
maybe even point it out in a funny cute way, after you approach
if u can make her feel smaller than you, and then build her esteem back up on your own account that she wants ur approval
then she is just another hot blonde(or any other) that is begging for you
and once u get ur first HB10 or 11, especially when ur friends see it, there is no girl that is "out of your league" cuz u always remember the time u got ur first megahottie haha

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just have fun and you will never be dissapointed

Yea this is the "megahottie" so far, shes a professional cheerleader.

With that mindset you've already lost.
Thats y we have the community so we can bypass the barries that are in our way.
Change ure mindset .

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Difficulties are things that show a person what they are.” Epictetus

To be blunt here, so fucking what if she is a pro cheerleader. I am mean really. What makes her so special that you put her on a pedestal for?

I have been studying tons of seduction materials and listened to what all the best pua's have to say. I've also been learning speed seduction.
Because of these things, I no longer believe that any girl is out of my league, except for the ugly ones.
I know now that I can and will get HB10's AND keep them for as long as I want!
I'll be ready to start using it in the field soon.
SS is ultra powerful. You can use it to do so many powerful things, like make a girl obsessed with you or make her cum really hard without even touching her, or make her your complete sex slave. I'm gonna get an HB10 and make her my love slave.
All other pua methods are retarded compared to SS.
There's one HB10 who works at a nearby market. She's the most beautiful girl I have ever seen in my life, bar none. She's the first girl I've met who I would truly call a 10. I was actually stunned when I saw her. I said "whoah!" I don't know why she's working at a market instead of doing something better like modeling. After I practice SS on some other hotties, I'm gonna go for her. When I get my first HB10 I'm gonna show her off in public in front of a lot of other guys and make them eat their hearts out.

I no longer think in terms of comparing my value to a girl's value.
That's what you do in misery method but not speed seduction.

I am simply the prize and I'm the best option there is for any girl.
No need to compare value anymore.

My SS skills are so extremely rare that any girl I meet will never find another guy like me. No one can make her feel as good as I can and no one can fuck with her mind as severely as I can

You already assume that because she's pretty, she's able to do/deserves a better job. You already attributed value solely based on her looks. Have fun with your mind fucking.

You stop viewing the interaction as "you're a 5, she's a 10"

You get a life.

You have things going for you outside the comfort of your own home.

You become a successful person who takes what he wants out of this life and refuses to settle.

Etc. etc.


S

This is an interesting thread.

This is what happens to me. I see a HB10 and think, jeez she must have a boyfriend and that is the excuse that usually kills my initiative so I talk myself out of approaching simply on the basis that I suppose because she is beautiful she must be already taken.
Have any of you had this excuse pop into your head to not do the approach..?

To be honest, there are loads of excuses that pop into my head to try to disuade me from approcahing. like for example, oh she is too young or old or she hasnt given me any IOIs or whatever. I could write a book.
Most times I manage to do it anyway.
This evening was in the supermarket, and not just there to buy my fruit and veg for the week.
I see this hottie across the way and talked myself out of it thinking that she was probably already taken so therefore why bother.
Also, I find in the supermarket, it is tricky cos I don't want to give the impressino that I am following her. I like to kinda see the babe get nearer to me and then open. it feels more natrual and less weird.
oops think I just went off the subject..

Not to regurgitate popular advice, but that's why there's the 3 second rule. Approach within 3 seconds and you sink or swim, your mind doesn't have time to screw you out of a good opportunity. But yeah, I still regularly make up stupid excuses not to talk to a girl. I'm getting better at making any stupid excuse to start an interaction. That's my goal, not to date the girl (since I don't know the first thing about her), just to make some really small chat. It doesn't matter if she's taken.

As soon as someone said "if you think she's out of your league, it's because you put her there" my attitude changed instantly.
I went for it, and it seems to be paying off. It's 4am and out of nowhere she starts texting me, obviously drunk, asking what im up to and what im doing tommorow for Canada day.

I am glad you have found a style and are confident in your abilities but you should get into the field and practice. Hate to say it but I don't believe in purely SS game I have only ever seen one person use NLP effectively and even then it was mixed with other styles.