Your absolutely allowed to enter, everyone has an equal chance to enter no matter how novice or advanced.

As for doing it for more people its not so much the phone bill as it is the fact that this is what I do for a living. I decided to offer some for free as another way to give back because my business has been doing so well, but honestly I think taking on more free sessions then these would probably hurt my income... and even I have bills to pay

Your story; who are you, how did you get to where you are today, what have you already studied?

Hey Doctor, I'm Steven, 22 years old, living in Europe (Belgium) but my English is pretty good. I come from a broken family with no father figure, my father was really successfull with girls but didn't learn me anything, he's also an alcoholic and sort of a manipulator. My mother is suicidal and I have been raised by my (angry) aunt who blamed me for the actions of my father. That's how I grew up, no family love and always getting reminded that I can't ever ever become like my father.

I grew up with the idea that women are dangerous (the women in my family weren't nice women at all) and being successful with women is shamefull. I was an extremely shy and introvert guy, got bullied. I suffered a lot in my childhood and adolescence, but I now realize that I learned lots of things from it.

Now I am able to make that connection with girls and understand them, I love it when I feel that connection with a girl, it's a great feeling. Because of the fact that I went through allot I am pretty interesting to listen to so I don't have much trouble maintaining a conversation with mature people.

I also have no taboos, I can speak about anything with an open mind and most people who listen to what I say really admire this trait in me, girls especially.

My big obstacle is my fear of rejection, that's one obstacle I still have from my childhood because I was always rejected by everyone. It's very hard for me to start the conversation with an attractive woman and to show interest and this mostly even occurs when I clearly get signals of interest by attractive women. I'm pretty attractive, but my unconscious fear of rejection often takes over. This is a big obstacle that I must (and will) overcome.

I recently have been doing some progress passing through my comfort zone, forced myself to speak to attractive women I don't know with some results, I'm on the good way.

I always ended up with girls that choosed me instead of the opposite, I don't want that anymore. I decided that I need to be the one that chooses the girl instead of the opposite

I'm seeing a psychoanalyst for a year now to get rid of my mental obstacles, it (slowly) gives some results. Since 1 year I'm also a psychology student, I dedicate my entire life to this.

I studied David Deangelo's material (one of my favourites), Mystery (which I don't really like, I think there are very interesting points in his material but I don't like the whole routine thing, I want to be a character, not a robot).

I'm now reading “Introducing Nlp” and have some other books here that I'm going to read (The selfish gene, The red queen, Sperm wars, Mastering your hidden self,...)

Your goals; who do you want to be?

I want to become successful with women and life, both are so related. I believe that I need a woman in my life to be really happy. It's a great feeling being with a quality girl that admires you for your persistence in whatever you want to achieve in life.

To be with a quality girl I need to be picky and not take whatever average to good looking girl that chooses me. I raised my standards, I don't want a “random” girl. I want a really beautifull, smart, loving girl that I can love.

In my professional life I want to become a psychoanalist, goal reaching oriented, figure out what people really want and the way to get it. I'm all about self-improvement and I will be able to share my knowledge in my future profession which will also keep me on track of my own self-improvement process (which has no ending, you can always improve yourself).

I want to be able to speak to any women in any situation with no fear of rejection. I love socializing and I love to meet a stranger that I would never have met if I didn't take any action. The ultimate goal is to find the right woman for me. I might have to meet lots of women to find the right one but that doesn't scare me, my objective is clear.

How do you intend to reach these goals, what are you willing to do in order to accomplish them?

I want to try anything, I'm willing to do anything in order to accomplish them, there is no other alternative this is about my life. If I wouldn't dedicate myself to this 100% it means I give up on life (the moment you give up on life you can as well die).

Why do you want to work with me?
And last, Why should I choose you, what makes you special and unique, why do you feel you'd be a good fit?

I've read some of your previous posts and I think your view of life is very close to mine, we have lots of things in common and that can make the coaching very effective, working on the foundations, overcoming my fears.

I'm persistent, I never give up, when I fall I always get up afterwards. I'm also very open minded, I'm willing to try anything and try to always be very objective, understanding human nature, understanding why people act this or that way with a sociological point of view.

I'm looking forward to work with you because a mentor can make my self improvement very motivating, going on a mission and fulfilling the steps, I can't wait to start.

There's an analogy to what I wrote just above, like I said, the right woman can be highly motivating to achieve goals because she admires that trait in you (I think all women do), quality women want winners, that's a high motivator.

A mentor is highly motivating because when you fully invest yourself, you want to show your mentor that you have the guts to do whatever you got to do, it's a real challenge and I love challenges.

The Story So Far:

Cigarette smoke swirls overhead, mingling with the slightly more rebellious fumes of another kind. The bass of overloud music thumps in the ambience, providing the rhythm for a night of free-flowing alcohol and carefree, perhaps reckless revelry. Young forms twist and writhe in the middle of the floor, while others prefer to remain seated on benches along the walls – they await their turn.

No, this isn’t a wild Euro-club or a crazy disco-tech – it’s a fraternity basement, and the people twisting on the floor do so with paddles in hand, lunging and diving in order to hit a mild-mannered ping pong ball into a set of beer-filled cups. This is beer pong, and this specific version is the one played on this college campus in particular – a version that is more complicated, but certainly not less significant in the university culture.

Playing at one table is a young man of Korean-American ethnicity. He bounces the ball lightly along the intricate designs marking the table, the paddle held easily in his right hand as he prepares to serve, a slicing spin delivery that leaves opponents dumbfounded. The dark-haired gamer is a skilled pong player, but this talent is only a byproduct afforded him by his true calling: tennis. For the vast majority of his life, this five-eight frame devoted itself obsessively to one of two pursuits, and his lean build and tan complexion – complete with hilarious sock tan – serve as a red flag better than any amount of his varsity gear.

The other pursuit, incidentally, was and still is academics. The fraternity he presently stood in is based at a prestigious middle-sized liberal arts college in the New England area, and it was only through long years of diligent study that he achieved entrance there. His hard work has produced a number of noteworthy triumphs in both the academic and athletic fields, but this uncompromising focus has resulted in a severe deficiency in a third area, namely women.

Our hero’s name is CK Thunder, and at age nineteen, he is a hopeless incompetent in the arena of girls. Mild-mannered and friendly, the pong star can definitely communicate with girls; but despite his best efforts, he cannot seem to create the romantic connection he desires. This is not to say that he complete lacks any kind of experience: his senior year in high school, he was quite steady with one girl; but the precious few times they had sex left him desiring more.

In fact, at this very moment, he high fives his partner, a fairly attractive girl who is somewhat impressed by his spin serve. Perhaps a nominal amount of attraction surfaces, but from there, the raven-headed racket-wielder can’t do much. It’s a good bet to say that our hero won’t be going home with any female friends tonight.

In truth, he looks in from the outside, and sees a source of fun and delight that he has only sampled.

This is a hard reality that he hopes to amend, and it was by the recommendation of one of his trusted friends that he encountered an enlightening tome known as The Game. By adding $50 to Mr. Strauss’s coffers, CK was granted a glimpse into the life of the so-called pick-up artist, an intriguing society of people who also once suffered from a lack of female interaction. But no more.

Thanks to persistent experimentation and steadfast determination, an unwavering band of trailblazers gave birth to a revolutionary new way of thinking, a mindset that could precisely meet young CK’s needs. Indeed, our adventurer wants nothing more than to delve into an area of his life that he had thus far neglected, a component that he knows exists – but one that he had never utilized for an overall happier lifestyle. The Game piqued brave CK’s interest, and it wasn’t long before he registered an account on his first pick-up artist forum.

It’s now summer break: the perfect time for wholesale personality transformations, and to that end our ambitious enterpriser has made his first strides. During a rainy Saturday, he tore through The Mystery Method and Body Language, and the following Monday, he took a trip to the mall with a female friend (yes, a female friend – he’s not a complete sociopath). Armed with a tidy sum he had earned through giving tennis lessons, he and this girl made serious upgrades to his wardrobe.

Still, ever searching for ways to maximize efficiency, our champion took this opportunity to kill two birds with one stone by practicing cold approaches. At the beginning of the shopping spree, he sprayed a different cologne on each wrist and, pen in hand, asked every girl he saw, be they in groups or traveling singly, which fragrance they preferred. By the end of the day, he passed for a decent tiger impersonator, with no less than twenty stripes on each forearm – not quite the same as notches on the bedpost… but it was a start.

And that is the story thus far – a start.

As of now, the protagonist hopes to grow by following a number of avenues, and it turns out a particularly promising path has been offered by a renowned pick-up instructor known only as the Doctor. Our hero takes this choice of moniker as an omen: it seems strangely appropriate that he should receive instruction from him, since he is a literal student of medicine, and he has jumped at the chance. This offer is in the form of a contest, and our hero has entered the contest with a level of optimism. By writing an over-the-top character sketch, our hero hopes to demonstrate a level of wit, personality, and determination that will hopefully grab the interest of the Doctor. If he’s executed well, young Thunder could very well find himself on the fast track to the new level of female interaction that he seeks.

Your story; who are you, how did you get to where you are today, what have you already studied?

I'm a 24 year old virgin who has never had a girlfriend. I'm scared that my 20s will have passed, and I'll still be socially unfulfilled without having lived up to the potential of my youth - this is my biggest fear. I've worked hard to get a good education, get a stable job, volunteer in my community, and treat my loved ones well, but none of these are providing the fulfillment that will come from social and sexual aptitude.

I'm 6'2" and as recently as a year ago I used to weigh 140 pounds - a scrawny, lanky guy with no confidence or self-worth. I spent the last 12 months working with total discipline and willpower to gain 40 pounds of muscle. Seeking more help, I changed my entire wardrobe and sense of fashion, including hair, facial hair, and body language. People who haven't seen me in two years are left speechless when they see the difference. Today, I'm a built, fashionable guy...with no confidence of self-worth. Therein lies my problem.

I've studied countless community materials in the past year since I entered the community. When I've tried to implement my learnings, I've had inconsistent success in battling approach anxiety and holding interesting conversations of varying lengths. I've seen improvement in my ability to generate witty, charming banter, but everything after that point falls apart - furthermore, any social attraction I gain doesn't persist beyond the interaction. When I do see those people again, things are very awkward - I'm self-conscious because I know I can't maintain the cool-guy image I created earlier for them.



Your goals; who do you want to be?

I want to be in CONTROL of my social destiny. I don't want to be confined to meeting the people I was bound to meet through school, work, volunteering, or events within my community. I want to choose the ones who will become my friends and my lovers, so that I can choose to bring high-quality people into what I hope will become my high-quality life, and keep the negative, pessimistic, unsupportive characters out.

I want to have a large, strong social circle, of which I'm a major part. I want my phone to be ringing off the hook with calls and texts from beautiful girls and cool guys, because they won't tolerate me not showing up to their event or party that night. I don't want any more of the very common lonely evenings, flipping through my phone looking for someone in my moderately-sized social circle to call, only to realize they're all too busy with their girlfriends/boyfriends, other friends, and all-in-all fulfilling life to bother with me, let alone be excited about me.

I want to be a socially magnetic and attractive force of nature who people cannot wait to see again. I want my interactions with people to leave them happier, more energetic, and hopeful about life. I want quality women to feel turned on by my presence, and I want to give them the seductive fantasies and fulfilling emotional connections they've been dreaming about their whole lives. I want to make love to their bodies, minds, and emotions.



How do you intend to reach these goals, what are you willing to do in order to accomplish them?

I intend to reach my goals by developing a peer group of friends who are supportive of me and my goals. People who see the integrity and sincerity of my intentions to improve my life, and who will always remain on my side and not tolerate any less from me than my best self.

I intend to learn to place less importance on what others think about me or, more specifically, what I think others think about me - this is one of my biggest challenges and has been very difficult to address due to my lack of guidance.

I intend to put myself outside my comfort zone on a recurring basis, and analyze each interaction to ensure ongoing improvement.

I'm willing to do anything that I feel will help me - yes, anything. I have a solid degree and a good job, which I have quit to explore moving/travelling to any other city that doesn't have the emotional baggage of my hometown, for the sole reason of becoming my best self. A place where I can experiment and explore without worrying about the negativity that my current environment throws my way.



Why do you want to work with me?

In order to improve, I need to take action - I can follow advice that's directed towards me, but years of negative social habits and frame of mind have made it very difficult for me to motivate myself towards that same action. From reading through your older posts, you seem like the kind of mentor who can help me create the right momentum in my life.

(I hope the fact that I've only just signed up to this forum isn't a disadvantage - I've been in the community for nearly a year now, and have read/heard/viewed countless community materials during that time.)

What I most need in my life right now is a mentor. Not someone to hold my hand, but someone to be a source of support and guidance. My social circles right now are unsupportive of me, and because I don't have my choice of friends, it's very difficult for me to move past them and develop healthy relationships with friends who support my journey.



Why should I choose you, what makes you special and unique, why do you feel you'd be a good fit?

I've reached the lowest lows, and now I'm ready to shoot for the highest heights. Though my friends and family would describe me as happy and fulfilled, they don't know the true desperation, loneliness and unhappiness that plague me because of my social impotence. I don't say this for the sake of being negative or to get pity, but to show that I recognize my shortcomings and my absolute desire to change the course of my life.

I've never had a 'big brother', but it's exactly what I've always wanted, and it's exactly what I need today - a guy who's concerned about my improvement, as I am, and is willing to spend time with me to check in and see that I'm getting closer. You should choose me because my nature is one that doesn't like to disappoint the people in my life - if I have someone who has invested any amount of time and energy in my improvement, I can't allow that effort to be in vain. Unfortunately, nobody has invested in me before. But I know that when it happens, it will be the most powerfully motivating factor in my journey.

This is why I hope you'll choose me.

hi !



I accidentally hooked this girl, who i liked for ages but thought my chances were none

She is now very interested and nice to me, since I proved im High Value. I went to some exclusive VIP thingy with celebrities and I asked a friend of hers to come via her :p LOL
She could not give me her friends number in time so eventually I went with this model, and I told her about the model and how great it was and she was jealous cuz i could have asked her..
The reason why i did not ask her was because i did not like her, she was too arrogant and i think she has some kind of boyfriend or something

Though she has a BF, she is showing a LOT of IOI's since I saw her today

I want to get her into bed, i dont know how. She has shown me some sexual IOI's,
lol i pulled everything on her, and didnt even know. even the jealousy card :p I cant stop laughing right now


I have just been nice to her today, no negs, nothing. Just nice, not even sexually interested. I just told her how it was, and i showed her some pictures of the model and me, and parts of the show where I went.
In the end I told her I had to leave because I was going to a party,, that was the only lie, I just wanted to go to keep the tension up.
She has been nice and the comfort was quite good during the whole convo. During the convo I did not have plans with her, but she sure had with me

and I dont know how to take it from here
I mean, i cant let her take initiative right ? A man has got to do that, but i dont want to seem too needy.
I just want to say to her right now, hey come to my house and lets have sex. But she wont do that im sure
So here im stuck in between in the back of my mind im like "lets have sex asap", and my actions are "do nothing she is interested into you, let her work".
But we wont get anywhere cuz sooner or later I think i am gonna screw up. My plan right now is to wait and chill. but usually it does not get me anywhere. She is not gonna call me anytime soon like hey come over for sex, i like you now. I can read her mind you know :p

and i never know how to take it from there. Also this situation has been sheer luck to me, I always get blown out and i want to change that

I think I have good skills here and there, but there are a lot of holes in my game.
I want to cover the holes and improve a lot.
im sure im not the only one here who will give full commitment, and try his hardest
but i dont know what else to give

The situation above is the kind of situation I get in a lot, with sometimes a close at the end. But I dont want to be lucky anymore, yes I do, but I dont want to be dependant of luck you know what I mean ?

I appreciate that you do this for the community

by the way, what have I already studied ? I am studying to be a doctor too, medical school

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Failure was never an option


Because girls don't like sex.. Yeah RIGHT!
Why else do you think girls have P*ssies

Your story; who are you, how did you get to where you are today, what have you already studied?

I was born in France but moved around a lot as a kid , and so I lived in 5 different countries by the age of 16 and visited countless others. Making friends and socializing has never been a big problem for me because of that and I also visited countless other countries so making friends was never hard for me. I've lived most of my life in Asia.

When I was a kid (5 to 10 years old) I used to be really mature for my age and got interested with girls REALLY REALLY early lol. It started when I was 5 and living in China , and the "GIRL NEXT DOOR" lol used me as her sex pet basically lol she was 4 years older then I'am (9-10 years old) and like every so often she'd call me and she'd TRY to have sex with me. Being only 5 years old and not knowing what sex or how the hell everything thing works you can imagine how funny that is today lol . But nonetheless we were naked and I tried :p.

Now after I got into a big accident we moved "somewhere else", there I was pretty successful with the ladies too , I had 3 "girlfriends" which I french kissed ( at different times haha) and when we used to play cat mouse all the girls used to chase me and well I added a catch and kiss twist to the whole thing :p.

THEN came my entrance into puberty...(worst fucking period of my life...I'm sure I'm not alone), I matured sexually at an early age and had functioning organs at 10 years old and discovered masturbation then thanks to my brothers collection. Thank you for that dear brother . But my body ws physically changing and it wasn't pretty , I was really skinny, had really bad acne ( looking at pictures makes me sick...) , had and still have a scar on my head from the accident ( So I tend to keep women from touching the area in fear they'll think it's a bald spot...),I severely hated myself for being so me... I was never unpopular and had friends from different social circles but girls either gave me the "let's just be friends" card or I was too scared to talk to the ones I had "feelings for" because I feared rejection (who doesn't right...but I got rejected too often for the times I've tried...). So now I'm 19 going on 20 and still have this fear/anxiety towards women that I want to get rid off !

I've done things to give me more confidence, like work out, wear contacts now, take care of my body and stuff and I know I'm not a bad looking guy or socially retarded but I do lack confidence and the tools to enable me to to do anything with women. Now in university, even trying to have a conversation with a girl I have no feelings for is hard...

I love martial arts, parkour/ free running, movies and more recently learning about psychology of women, social dynamics, NLP and such.

I've studied some of Mystery's video's (seminars), half way through the game ( should be done soon), reading an introduction to NLP and read countless articles on routines/openers and other stuff related to the community.

Your goals; who do you want to be?

I want to become the person I'm supposed to be ! I know for a fact that if i can become a PUA that it will not only help me become successful with women but enable me to use the tools I've learned in other areas of my life and become a better person. I want to feel better, be happier and live my life the way It's meant to be lived with someone by your side.

How do you intend to reach these goals, what are you willing to do in order to accomplish them?

I know full well that by sticking to the same things I've been doing all these years I won't grow as a person and reach my goals. I'm willing to change everything that is me today to become the me of tomorrow. I know full well it ain't going to be easy but I will achieve my goals.

Why do you want to work with me?

I need any help I can get, I'll take in whatever you have to teach. I'm new to these forums so i can't say it's because I adore your way of thought, I don't know it but any information is good information . And reading the intro to your website square 1 coaching, I'm interested.

And last, Why should I choose you, what makes you special and unique, why do you feel you'd be a good fit?

You should choose me because I believe that women would be lucky to get to know me and I would like to share what I have to offer to women and also receive. I've been the nice guy all my life and whatever I was thought as a kid by my parents ( girls like nice guys or shit like that) is utterly false . The nice guy gets the friends card or rejected heavily that's all I've learned in my teenage years. I've been lied too by my parents , the media and I feel like I missed out on a lot and want a chance to redeem myself and my manhood. I promised myself I'd never be an asshole (because assholes get the girls right...) in order to get a girl and I believe that I found a way to get the girl through the pick up community without being a douche ! I'm willing to learn and break out of my shell .

Thanks for the opportunity to be coached by you, wish more PUA's would offer contests like these . Cheers

My name is Bryan and I go to school full time as a college student. Up to college, the reason I got anywhere was because of my parents. They are amazing people that have helped me through so much of my life, however, since my first year of college, I refuse to lean on them any longer. Something I've realized recently is to never bitch about your situation because everybody has something worse. I've had a girlfriend whose family beat her, friends who don't have parents, friends with divorces, the works. Compared to them, my life is perfect. My mother has serious back issues, but I have a great family.

One of my goals since this realization is to be a beacon of positive light not only for myself, but for others. I came to this conclusion after hearing this quote from the movie Coach Carter: "Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate. Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure. It is our light, not our darkness, that most frightens us. Your playing small does not serve the world. There is nothing enlightened about shrinking so that other people won't feel insecure around you. We are all meant to shine as children do. It's not just in some of us; it is in everyone. And as we let our own lights shine, we unconsciously give other people permission to do the same. As we are liberated from our own fear, our presence automatically liberates others." It's true for me, I was afraid of reaching my absolute best. But not anymore. I just need a nudge in the right direction and I thrive off contact from another person helping me learn.

I started with "The Game" and "Mystery Method" but these never really jived for me. I recently finished Johnny Soporno's series "Introduction To Seductive Reasoning" and it struck a chord with me. One of my biggest issues is being worthy. I'm a nice guy who is always willing to help others out. I work my ass off in school, and sports (I play water polo for my school) and I'm an awesome boyfriend. Despite these things, I feel inadequate to other people and I'm not sure why, I hope you can help.

Goals I can do once I have them figured out. I am double majoring in Business and Philosophy and I will accomplish my goals the same way I have been keeping my grades up. I make a list and write down what I need to accomplish. Then I break down harder tasks into smaller more manageable tasks. This strategy has been working for me which is gratifying. What am I willing to give to accomplish my goals? All that is necessary plus the little more that will let me sleep at night. I refuse to be satisfied with mediocrity.

I want to work with you very badly after reading things from your website. You understand that validation from the outside is nice, but fleeting, and I struggle with this. There is a craving inside me that desires to be needed and wanted by other people and I don't know how to get rid of it. Your site seems to focus on receiving validation from yourself and re-framing your belief system into a positive force in your life. I'm not looking for you to fix my mental limitations, but I think you understand the issue far better than I do which is why i ask for your help.

Am I more special than other people here? I don't know, but I do know that I am special if nothing else, because there is nobody else like me. That is why I think I would be a good fit. I am looking to become the best me possible. I hope you can help me.

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"Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate. Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure. It is our light, not our darkness that most frightens us.”

Yo man, it's David dammit, my pooah alter ego is gone.

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I'm addicted to facing my fears.

Greetings, Doctor.

I am Mitch. I am 18 years old. Throughout my life I have had mild social anxiety, anxiety which as of late I have had much success overcoming. I stumbled upon this website, and consequently this contest after watching a video on the psychology of persuasion. I recently broke up with a long term girlfriend, and am looking to broaden my horizons for potential relationships, whatever they may become. I have not done much studying in relation to the art of picking people up, but I intend to from this moment on. I realize you may not want a complete "newbie" to coach, and would have done more research on my own had the circumstances surrounding my exposure to this contest been a little less rushed. I find psychology genuinely interesting, and frequently watch videos which cover all aspects of social interactions, yet have not ventured in the subcategory that is the art of the pick up.

As for my goals, I have no absolute defined ones at this moment. I would say short term I want to get out of the same old same old, meet new people, do new things, and experience life from a different perspective. After I have accomplished this I will then choose the specific path I wish to walk. I believe the way to accomplish this is to be more socially skilled. With exposure to new people, and new relationships comes exposure to new possibilities, to new experiences, to the life I want to live. I have a small dream to fight professionally, yet am also pursuing the fall back plan of getting a degree in electrical technologies and control.

To accomplish these things, I have found myself becoming much more open to social situations, as I see this as a direct route to achieving anything in the current society I live in. As far as the fighting goal, I can not afford formal training in that area, so I have been bouncing around different martial arts clubs during their open gym hours, as any exposure is better than no exposure.

I wish to work with you because I wish to work with the best. Your overall presentation, and other comments about you on this forum imply that you are very knowledgeable in this area, and naturally this is an attractive thing for prospector clients.

I believe you should choose me because my potential is limitless. I have the desire and ability to change the world for the better, only ignorance stands in my way. By helping me cast aside that ignorance you will open up countless new possibilities in my life, and allow me to rise to an even more viable position to change the world around me. By supplying me with your knowledge, you will enable me to travel down a more desirable road, a road with endless possibilities for myself and those around me.

Thank you for your consideration, Mitch.

I know it’s the 26th but I know I would kick myself in the ass if I at least didn’t try.

Your story; who are you, how did you get to where you are today, what have you already studied?

Well, I am 18 years old and I stumbled onto PU after reading THE GAME. I really couldn’t believe that stuff like that worked. It was the beginning of last summer when I read that book and didn’t really think nothing of it. Summer passed like it always did with nothing special happening to me personally. I hung out with cool people who got girls there were plenty of attractive girls surrounding me….but I never got with any of them…ever. I guess when I wa younger I figured that it would just happen to me. Know I know that if you want things to happen, you have to go out and make them happen for yourself. After summer I was shipped off to boarding school b/c I fucked up the year before by not going to school. I was at school and I didn’t know anybody, and a friend asked me if he could borrow THE GAME, I hadn’t even known I brought it with me, after that I started remembering all the stuff and I figured that if I was going to try to do stuff like that I might was well try it in a place where no one is expecting anything specific out of me, right? So the first couple of weeks went by and there were a couple of lame dances the school threw and I remember this moment where I saw this one guy just surrounded by these 2 hot girls, and the one he was dancing with was REALLY attractive. I looked over and I thought to myself, “Its too bad I’ll never get girls like that.” And I also knew that he was new too, which really kind of killed my confidence.So I studied and studied mostly about inner game, mostly because It was the easiest for me to try with out actually talking to anyone. Then I found the chatroom, that’s what really started it for me. So I met a bunch of people most importantly Hobbit and Pan Pan,Hobbit is who I consider my mentor. Hobbit pretty much was the guy who answered all my stupid questions, and got me through a few texting convos where he actually gave me 100% of what I was saying. He did help me get the girl that I saw dancing earlier in the this paragraph tho. The things I have studied are mostly inner game and natural game, both which I think are easiest when studied alone and put to use very passively.I want to step it up, big time.

Your goals; who do you want to be?
My long term goal is if I do get married, I want to be crazy about the girl that I am getting into it with. I want ot be CRAZY about her. I don’t want to just drag myself to the marriage and just do it and get divorced like more than half of people. I want to be with a girl that will make my life the happiest and best I can possibly make it. I guess a soul mate….

My short term goal is I want to experience life, more sex, I want to be happy, I want to be that confident guy who isn’t afraid to just go up and talk to girls. And If I see a girl I want, I want to be able to go up to her with confidence and fucking get her! I don’t wanna sit on the sidelines and say “Oh gee...that’ll never happen…

How do you intend to reach these goals, what are you willing to do in order to accomplish them?
I know that if I work hard enough I can accomplish anything, I have done it before with my sport and that is what gives me the confidence to make me think that I am able to do this. B/c I have played my sport less than half the time everyone else at my level has and I am better than many of them. When I get hooked on something I get compulsive about it, especially when I see results.

Why do you want to work with me?

I can’t say that I really know you, but if an expert is giving out free training it would be stupid to look it over and not attempt to get some free training. Right?


And last, Why should I choose you, what makes you special and unique, why do you feel you'd be a good fit?

I am willing to make all the sacrafices, in the gym, with clothing, with everything. I will do it all.
It might sound concieted a little bit, but honestly I don’t think you will find someone that works as hard as I will. I pride myself in my work ethic, and when I want something I work HARD to get it. I am not saying that other people can’t do it or anything, but what I am saying is that I’ll work harder than the rest of candidates. That’s it.

No worries man I taking entries through today and going over them over the weekend before announcing the winners

nooooooooooooooooo 2 late

I know it's the 28th but i figured i'd throw my 2 cents in there.

I'm 20, in the army, and in Iraq right now. My life isn't as dramatic as everyone else, i grew up pretty good. My whole life i've played soccer and had good friends. I was on the drumline in high school which was the cool thing at the time, my senior year i played football so i had a little bit of popularity. My thing is that i've always been the "funny guy" which is a good thing in my eyes but most the time i can't get a girl to think i'm serious or immediately thinks i'm an asshole and turns the other way. I've never really had problems hooking up with girls but they have probably been from 6's - 8's. The only stuff i've studied so far i wouldn't even call studying is i read the game, right now i'm reading I hope they serve beer in hell by Tucker Max but am willing to learn as much as possible. In fact that is why i'm starting to be active in these forums i don't want to study a bunch of different things when they don't work for me or not knowing how to use them. That's why i want to start new and try to find someone who actually knows what they are talking about to help me out rather than these self-proclaimed "MPUAs" that are just regurgitating what others have already said. My goal is to have the confidence and the knowledge to be able to walk up to a "HB10" and hold a conversation without getting nervous, have her think i'm just "friend material" and getting her to want me. I'm special and unique because i'm not going to give you some long dramatic story about my life and how tough it has been. I think that i will be fun and easy to work with and i am want to absorb as much knowledge as i can.

Fantastic contest guys and thank you for all the entries,

I can see that many of you have great stories, and have the motivation to do great things as well.

The winners should have their PM's in their inboxes now and I'll be giving them each a week to respond so we can set it up, before I go down to third place.

Great stories guys! And for any of you who still want coaching but didn't win you can PM me or click the link in my signature for info on my rates and such.

Good luck to all of you guys and I hope to keep seeing you around here as you continue to improve your lives.

Congrats to the winners!!!!

From what ive heard about Doc and just listening
to him talk your getting a great PUA and a heck
of a coach. Have fun and listen or he will KICK you out, lol.