Now this will probly come across as a bad case of the one itis, and that may be the case. However, I am new to the whole world of seduction, and am trying to learn the ropes.

Here is my situation I have been talking to this girl on and off for about 6 months online, we were just friends to begin with but a lot more has developed. About a month ago it started to get really sexual, and we set up a vacation together, where she is coming to visit me in NY for a few days. We have spent a lot of time talking and through me using my usual game, which is generally being cocky funny. I had her calling me begging for sex.

Now last weekend she called me up and sent me many text telling me about the dude that she was about to have sex with, and I acted non shalant like, go ahead and fuck her because I really have no right to be mad, we are not supposed to be exclusive or anything like that, for fucks sakes we havent met in person yet. Well now yesterday she calls me up telling me that she met some dude the night before and fucked him all night and is now all fucking about this guy, and wants to be exclusve with him. So she still wants to come to NY and stay with me, but not have any sort of relationship or sex anymore, she says that she is going to try and run wing for me but I have always had that end terribly.

SOOO ANY advice would be greatly appreciated, as I would certainly like to at least get back to where I was before this shit with this dude, if not steal her all to myself because she is one of the more cool chicks I have ever known and is a HB 8.5 solidly. Oh and BTW this guy seems to be an uber homo because he is being the ultra nice super artsy gentleman, I really get the feeling that if I continue to run the same game on her I can get rid of this douche.

Sorry for the novel post

Seriously, what kind of an answer do you expect you are gonna get ? Its quit straightforward. Forget about her and have sex with another HB, preferably several HB's. You should do this for 2 reasons:

1. To get over your oneitis.
2. If this girl still feels something for you she will get jealous and you will get back in a position to have sex with her. If she doesn't get jealous than it is a good thing that you focussed on other girls anyway.

see I was thinking that, but since she is going to be in NY and staying with me for 4 days I might as well fuck her right?

see I was thinking that, but since she is going to be in NY and staying with me for 4 days I might as well fuck her right?

Yes, then send her back to her artsy gentleman.

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If you want to, you should. But if this would happen to me, I wouldn't do anything with her. She had the opportunity to do it but she settled for an AFC, so bye bye opportunity for her. I would still be friends with her but not go any further. I don't really feel attracted to girls who like losers.

tell her you do not wanna be his friend
tell her if she goes to NY to stay with you is not gonna to be to wing for you if she says she wanna be exclisive with this new guy tell her you don't give a fuck tell you want her, if she still goes is gonna be to have sex, if she doesn't you would have saved time and money.

You can be angry and hurt, it's emotions, you don't need to rationalize that shit. I say, fuck it. Don't give that girl anything. She's already mind-fucking you by telling you how this guy fucked her all night. Decide now if you value that girl's friendship or you just wanted a lay. If you're really friends and you're okay with the strong possibility she's not going to put out, have your vacation. If you want sex, you are much better off going elsewhere and saving yourself what looks like a lot of disappointment. She was too impatient to get laid and commit and blew her chances with you, you are the decider.

Oh, and if you give her the ultimatum, "you can stay here, but you have to put out," then you lose on many levels, that's a guaranteed.

of course shes gonna say she wont have sex with you
she doesnt wanna feel like a slut
even tho she clearly showed this by saying she fucked sum random dude from the club haha
in game speak she said
"i want to come see you and have all the sex we can but i dont want to come off easy cuz i want you to work to get me when u see me even though weve been talking for so long"
as for the being ur wing part
"i want to go out and party with you to see how you treat me in an environment with other people around"

so let her come see you, hopefully its not a 50 year old perv dude, haha, jk
and then run ur best game on her, if it doesnt work out
obviously u guys connect since u can talk on the internet for so long
and she will make a good friend

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just have fun and you will never be dissapointed