Okay, I've learned... Its actually pretty easy talking to a girl a first day or getting numbers. Weather its online, or knowing them by association from friends etc... But even though I got numbers, Im not going anywhere. People tell me to go out on dates like watch a movie whatever... but I just feel way to lazy to go out and I feel like its lame. I don't feel like I have enough topics to talk about for the whole date. I don't want it to be awkward. I don't really like leading the whole date, like what to do etc... I'm 18, but I usually rely on someone else to handle everything. Like it feels weird to me that I have to lead everything and make sure everything is done right.

What would I talk about, what to do after the movie, should I buy her stuff, let her buy her own stuff? Time... where?! AHHH IDK!!!!! I feel lazy and scared to go out on a date...

Option 1: Stay home and jack off.
Option 2: Go on an akward, boring, lame date.
Option 3: Redefine your world:

Disregard the whole dating concept, it'll do you no good. Instead invite them to come kick it with you. Tell her youre going somewhere and invite her along. Go to parks/museums/school events/free public events/beaches/lakes/mountains/friends houses/smoothie shops/conventons/boat rides/concerts/gyms/buffets/classes/sporting events....

You clear the whole dinner and a movie and dating cliche and you can just be casual and have fun. Spontaneous things are bound to happen, the non-date is more exciting and changing venues makes it easier to escalate, so you can have a moment and make out with her 3minutes or 3 hours into the non-date, no longer nervously waiting until the end of the date when you fail at a goodnight kiss.

And you'll find that dinner and a movie isn't so bad after all, if its with someone you've <i>already hooked up with</i>

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Oh yea... you each pay for your own shit. Rule is you can pay for hers only after she pays for yours.

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