Heyyyup guys, just signed up here, im from the UK btw.
Well, there's this girl at college I like, we are friends, but not too good friends, not someone I can call up to hang out with, just maybe say hello at college.
Anyway, i've recentley started looking at some dating techniques and whatever, and trying to get a "dont give a s*** what anybody thinks mentality" because I get nervous easily.
The thing is, I talked to her today, eye contact and that, her legs facing me, maybe touching her hair a bit aswell. After finding out she wants to see the hangover, I'm thinking of asking her to go see it with me, gonna' brave it up.
She isn't 'shy', she talks a lot and that, but she's the type of girl that would "blush" easily I think, if you get me, maybe get a bit shy if I looked her in the eyes and told her she was attractive. Just wondering how I should ask her, do it while she's alone with me, or take her to a quiet place or what??
Sorry for long post by the way !
Any other advice would be great...
Cheers

talking is for girls, doing is for men.

call her or try to get ahold of her one way or another
"yo/hi/hello/whatever, what are you doing on bla bla at time whatever"
"nothing"
"okay, be ready/imma pick u up at bla bla time, wear something blue/pink/orange/whatever your favourite colour is"
"where we going to"
"secret"

and pick her up at the time you have agreed with.
Proceed by going to the cinema to see the hangover.

DONT TELL HER ANYTHING.


-Jav
bonus: here's a nice song.
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^----- Do what he says, trust me.

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I got some good advice from this forum about a similar situation... If you're friendly with this girl and she likes to talk to you, nobody can deny that. BUT... if you didn't just meet this chick tonight, and you see her a lot at class or work or whatever, moving a girl into isolation in one step can be difficult.

Maybe get a group together to go and say something like "hey we're going to see that movie, you should come. It'll be fun. Would you rather the 7pm or 9pm show?" The fact that there's a group takes some of the pressure off, and by the end of the evening you'll probably have her phone number and the opportunity to take the next step. I'm still an AFC, but hey, it's good advice. Also, the best trick ever is to not ask for the phone number... but while you're still talking (and keep talking), take out a piece of paper, write your number on it, tear it in half, and pass her both halves and the pen. If you play it cool (which you will), she'll write down her number without even thinking about it or having an opportunity to hesitate. Good luck bro. You got it.

sorry for late bump but yea asking a girl to go to a movie with you is not a big deal really like nothing worth being nervous about, I have this huge crush on this girl but I ask her if she wants to go out to the movies or do something and the funny thing is before asking her the first time I thought it was a big deal too but actually just say it casually "hey wanna go see that movie with me that you said you wanted to watch? lets go XX day XX time sound good?" something simple man it isn't even complicated