So i k closed and number closed a girl a couple of weeks ago, we've text each other a fair bit and arranged to go out for a drink this week, originally i could only do wednesday and she said she works late wednesday so is usually tired but said if thats the only day i could do then she'd have to find some energy. She seemed quite up for meetin up again giving me allot of ioi's through the texts and said she was really looking forward to it. I since found out i could now do the monday so i text her sayin we could do monday if she wants. It was quite late when i text her and she didnt text back but i did speak to her since then. So come monday i text her askin if she still wants to do something that night but hear nothing back and havent since, so i got blown out? what now?

When i met her someone for whatever reason told her i had a girlfriend and she seemed a bit off till she admited someone said that, so i told her i havent and she seemed cool, so im wondering if maybe shes still thinking i have.

Do i just forget her, move on and find some other girl or do i handle the situation and do somethin about it? and if so what?

I feel your pain, hope you hear from her tonight. I don't know much, but it sounds like you had it locked in for Wednesday. Pushing the plans up a couple days makes it sound like you can't wait anymore and loses you reliability points since you said only Wednesday would work. She was probably put off that she played your game, then you changed the rules.

Thats weird because she actually did text me tonight!

She said sorry for not replying all week and that shes been hectic and just asked how i was. So what now? A freeze out? Im thinking if she just wasnt interested then why bother texting me again at all? But was she really that hectic she couldnt send a text?
I dont know how to handle it, i dont want to play into her hands and be the afc that says oh thats ok we can go out whenever you want etc

Stop being a KJ and find more girls.

abundance mindset bro.

Who cares why she didn't send a text. She just stuck to the original plan. Let her lead you until she wants to do something you don't want to do, then put your foot down.