well i have dis hb8 im 20 shes 17 a cheerleader n we been talkin 4 about a week since last sunday 6/14.. I met her through a friend of mine because she's her cousin n she thought i was cute which i dont hear much. well things started off well we texted almost every night i work crazy hours so i cant talk to her alot. weve never flirted that much or not as much as i usually do with other chicks. i give her shit alot tho. but i get the feeling that ever since thursday. her hating ass cockblocking ass friend told her i tried 2 talk 2 her which is true and false but about 6 weeks ago.i tried to ask her out at 1st she said yea then she gave me an excuse which i KNOW was bullshit. that was last friday. anyway i haven't talked or texted her since saturday night she hasnt either so im confused whether she still interested.. i dont wanna send a text or call her and look needy since i know dat I AM SUPPOSED TO B DA PRIZE in this case. so what should i do?? i was thinking today should i go ahead and hit her with the "I THINK WE SHOULD JUST BE FRIENDS"? or just ignore her until thursday and hope she text or call me. because if i do the we should b friends i risk fucking up my chance at hooking up with her but if she doesnt text by thursday she's clearly not interested.. and i wanna snatch her up quick because a girl like her aint gonna b single long.. AM I RIGHT OR WRONG AND TIPS

You're pulling and pushing just a tiiiiiiiiny bit at a time. What you want to do shake that girl back and forth like a frothing rabid dog working over a leather boot. When you push, you push big time . . . You're busy with your "older" friends, work, school, etc . . . and you just might be "too busy for a relationship". When you pull, you don't "ask her out. You call her and FLIRT BIG TIME. So it's something like:

"Hey Miss Cheerleader, You were looking hot the other day at school. You keep that up and I will most definitely sneak a kiss when you least expect it. Oh, yeah, I will . . . oh shit, I gotta take this call. I'll call you later . . ."

The above is an ACTIVE push and pull and not a simple "ignore move" (Which is what wussies and chicks do) You should think of her emotions like a video game joystick and start pushing that thing around. The "date" is not important. The most important thing is to say and do whatever it takes to get the two of you together in PRIVATE. That is the goal. You can scare off a young girl with the word "date" so don't go cerebral. For now, go under the radar and then when you are 1 on 1, turn her emotional/sexual buttons on.

If you go the "Let's just be friends," route at this point, she'll think you're a big fat wuss.

If you simply ignore her, she'll think you're a big fat wuss with anxiety issues.

If you ask her out on a "date", she might get nervous and call the whole thing off.